Looking for decent black men that aren't interested in running the streets, drugs or alcohol (not a drunk) and doesn't mind that I have 2 teenage daughters in the home but they live with me part time. You must be able to speak your mind, share your feelings on a deep level and not play games. As you can see my age, I am not getting any younger and the man I really want to be with, is the one who doesn't mind being a homebody....for the most part. I like a romantic man who knows how to put his attention FIRST on his woman and pleases her first before anything or anyone else. He is interested in her heart. Poetically it would be nice but talking is the same too. And should I mention, God is important in your life as well. I don't mean saying, "oh yeah, I pray." That isn't enough...its the going to church and serving God that is important to me. I may be asking too much but "too much" is what I deserve after what I have just been through. Good Luck to you Black men that are seeking a serious female, you won't find one truer than myself. I am a real sweetheart...shy at first but eventually warm up. <--isn't that banana cute? LOL