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Topic: How Would you feel?
Timis76's photo
Sun 03/15/09 08:54 PM
I have been separated from my wife for 8 months now no contact. my ex told me today that she was prego by another man, and that we can not get the divorce finalized till after the baby is born. I don't get that. I had the paperwork filed at the end of Feb. Can her getting prego stop that? Should I be mad? What would you do?

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 03/15/09 08:56 PM
I think you got a little dirt on your shoulder guy, flowerforyou

Johncenawlife316's photo
Sun 03/15/09 08:58 PM

I have been separated from my wife for 8 months now no contact. my ex told me today that she was prego by another man, and that we can not get the divorce finalized till after the baby is born. I don't get that. I had the paperwork filed at the end of Feb. Can her getting prego stop that? Should I be mad? What would you do?


Talk to a lawyer, they would know more then some of us.

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 03/15/09 08:58 PM

I have been separated from my wife for 8 months now no contact. my ex told me today that she was prego by another man, and that we can not get the divorce finalized till after the baby is born. I don't get that. I had the paperwork filed at the end of Feb. Can her getting prego stop that? Should I be mad? What would you do?


No, it can't stop it. Sounds to me like she is trying to pull something over on you. Be cautious and follow through with the divorce.

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Sun 03/15/09 08:59 PM

I think you got a little dirt on your shoulder guy, flowerforyou
yep a little dust there might be awhile before you get the dust off

Queene123's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:02 PM
its not your child so no it cant stop the divorce. but i would still contact your lawyer

writer_gurl's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:02 PM
If I were you I would tell her, " Give me a DIVORCE, b!tch!!!"


...But that's just me:angel:

Timis76's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:03 PM
YA ITS DONE TURNED INTO A STAIN. Need to through that shirt away. Thanks going to talk to my lawyer tomorrow about it. Getting sick of paying that man so much $.

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Sun 03/15/09 09:04 PM

YA ITS DONE TURNED INTO A STAIN. Need to through that shirt away. Thanks going to talk to my lawyer tomorrow about it. Getting sick of paying that man so much $.

you go dude

liltazz's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:04 PM
Since you live in Missouri you can not get a divorce if your wife is pregnant. It stinks, but that's how it is in that state. Good luck with everything.

Timis76's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:06 PM

If I were you I would tell her, " Give me a DIVORCE, b!tch!!!"


...But that's just me:angel:




I did she sent the papers back shredded! not cool. But getting her on destruction of a legal document. Then had the cops to deliver the second one. Filed it. now she said she will have it stopped. WTF

Timis76's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:07 PM

Since you live in Missouri you can not get a divorce if your wife is pregnant. It stinks, but that's how it is in that state. Good luck with everything.


Thats what she said too. Why we have not been together sexually for going on a year now

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Sun 03/15/09 09:08 PM

I have been separated from my wife for 8 months now no contact. my ex told me today that she was prego by another man, and that we can not get the divorce finalized till after the baby is born. I don't get that. I had the paperwork filed at the end of Feb. Can her getting prego stop that? Should I be mad? What would you do?


Well NOW you can get her for adultery when you get divorced. That -among other things- means you're off-the-hook as far as spousal support and alimony are concerned. However- states differ with regard to such legislation from state to state, so you'd probably better talk to an attorney before anything else.

But not getting divorced until she pops out her illegitimate kid makes no sense.

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:09 PM
dont let her stop it


her being pregnant can not stop that at all.

so follow through with it.she is playing with ya and trying to get something

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:11 PM

Since you live in Missouri you can not get a divorce if your wife is pregnant. It stinks, but that's how it is in that state. Good luck with everything.


That law would only apply if she was pregnant with his kid.

Timis76's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:13 PM


I have been separated from my wife for 8 months now no contact. my ex told me today that she was prego by another man, and that we can not get the divorce finalized till after the baby is born. I don't get that. I had the paperwork filed at the end of Feb. Can her getting prego stop that? Should I be mad? What would you do?


Well NOW you can get her for adultery when you get divorced. That -among other things- means you're off-the-hook as far as spousal support and alimony are concerned. However- states differ with regard to such legislation from state to state, so you'd probably better talk to an attorney before anything else.

But not getting divorced until she pops out her illegitimate kid makes no sense.

No alimony, she would not dare. she was the bread winner in the home. Don't get me wrong I have been at the same job now for 5 years. She made a little more. Missouri dose not recognize adultery. Kid thing don't make sence to me eather

Winx's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:14 PM

Since you live in Missouri you can not get a divorce if your wife is pregnant. It stinks, but that's how it is in that state. Good luck with everything.


I live in St. Louis and I've never heard of that before. If one is separated for 8 mths., that doesn't seem fair to me.

Meg8771's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:17 PM
I had a friend in KY and he was in the same situation. Judge would not grant the divorce until paternity could be established, AFTER the birth. Once it was established, divorce was finalized quickly.

Some states are a no fault state. Doesn't matter who did what, just if it is irretreiveably broken.

But, talk to a lawyer from your state.

Good luck flowerforyou

liltazz's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:17 PM
It's not fair. I work with a woman who was separated from her husband for a year. She ended up getting pregnant by another man and could not get her divorce until after the baby was born.

Timis76's photo
Sun 03/15/09 09:17 PM

dont let her stop it


her being pregnant can not stop that at all.

so follow through with it.she is playing with ya and trying to get something


ya me back. I have turned my life to the good. new business, new toys, new life. everything she wanted. now she want back, bacause live has burned her. Dude that got her knocked up is married and went back to his wife lol serves her right

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