This subject is bitter sweet for me but here goes anyhow. My two
youngest are 5 & 4. Since birth we knew my 5yr old was in a sense not a
normal baby. I have spent 5 1/2 yrs now badgering Dr.s trying to get
help for him to figure out what he's got so we can learn how to help him
and get on with our lives. The Uof Iowa wouldn't diagnose him because
"he was too young". BUT, they said he was one point away from being
Mentally retarded. This place is suposed to be highly recommended. Bunch
of idiots!!! He saw a Psychiatrist and in 15mins she diagnosed him as
being ADHD, ODD w/learning disabilities.
My point. I moved down 4mths ago and have gotten more help than I had
in the 3yrs up north. His Dr. here is the Head Doc for the disabilities
clinic.

Well, we finally got his diagnosis confirmed as of today. He does
have ADHD, ODD w/learning disabilities but alot of it stems from
"Autism". Yes, we finally got the diagnosis that he has Autism, with a
tough of Aspergers. I am soooo happy we have finally figured this out
for his sake so we can find out what we need to do to help him live a
better life. I am so totally exausted after fighting for him these past
5 1/2 yrs I just can't stop crying. I guess I just can't believe we
finally did it! I just love my baby and wouldn't want him any other way!
Thanks for listening I just really needed to vent.

It must be hard, but remember that God gives us gifts that are just
right for us.It will be a learning experience for both of you,but the
benefits you will gain are so worthwhile.
HUGS!!!!!!

oops I didn't mean to click that last one

Almost forgot....

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thats why we are here just vent to us when you need to

Big HUGS for you Meeshep! and of coarse you son
too!

the not knowing I think is worse then anything ... SO that part is over
... :) ...
God bless you and good luck .. we are here .. :)

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My oldest has Autism, He is such a wonderful kid. Glad that you got your
answers.

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We went through the same problem of trying to find out why one of my
daughters was having problems, nothing major but something was not
right. They gave us more reasons and excuses, but no answers. Just
remember, doctors and lawyers for that matter are still "practicing"
their trades, if I told people I was "practicing" my construction trade,
do you think they would hire me.The best thing your son has going for
him is your love and support. God Bless you and your family
Meeshep.

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Oh, honey!!! It is not the end of the world. Both of my boys (11 and
15) have autism spectrum with youngest having Asperger's and my oldest
having PDD/NOS. They are such a joy! Now that you have a firm
diagnosis, the important thing is to start helping him learn to manage
his symptoms with things such as sensory integration and techniques for
making learning easier for him (lots of repetition in my youngest's
case). Good luck and if you need any advice, just holla!

(oh yes, and my youngest also has the ADHD/ODD/obsessive compulsive
which all go hand in hand with autism spectrum disorders )

Glad you found some answers ((hugs))

Thank you guys/gals!!!
It really means alot to me to see your kind words.
I don't like to post my kids on the internet But I did wanted ya'll to
see the love of my life. He doesn't have but a couple facial expressions
and this is one of them. He just melts my heart!

HUGS, HUGS, HUGS....

your boy is a doll , hugs to you
if you need
a friend ill be here

aww... well im glad for ya that u finaly got all the answers that u
wanted *hugs* this on to
celebrate