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you are a good bf/gf, and what makes you that way?
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Yes I am, because I said so
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I am because I am honest (i may not be nice) but no one says that is a quality a man is looking for
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I must not be very good, because everyone starts off loving everything about me, but they decide they need to CHANGE everything about me after 3 months!
I guess I'm just not domesticafied enough for them there womens.... |
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Sat 03/14/09 12:18 PM
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I am because I am honest (i may not be nice) but no one says that is a quality a man is looking for I agree with you. I am very honest. I like to resolve issues as they happen so ill feelings don't build up. I like to know where I stand with someone rather than walking around on eggshells; therefore, I do the same for them by expressing my feelings up front. I don't drag issues on and on. Once I've said my peace -- the issue is over! Let's get on with life! Just because someone says "NO" doesn't mean they are being mean. They are staying true to themselves. I think this is one of my best GF qualities. There are others but .... no need to go into that now! |
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I am because I am honest (i may not be nice) but no one says that is a quality a man is looking for I agree with you. I am very honest. I like to resolve issues as they happen so ill feelings don't build up. I like to know where I stand with someone rather than walking around on eggshells; therefore, I do the same for them by expressing my feelings up front. I don't drag issues on and on. Once I've said mypeace -- the issue is over! Let's get on with life! Just because someone says "NO" doesn't mean they are being mean. They are staying true to themselves. I think this is one of my best GF qualities. There are others but .... no need to go into that now! |
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depends on who i'm with but mostly, no, because i was with some goofy gals... it's hard to be a good bf when ur gf is a racist redneck, a complete idiot, never talks or, always a classic, junkie.
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depends on who i'm with but mostly, no, because i was with some goofy gals... it's hard to be a good bf when ur gf is a racist redneck, a complete idiot, never talks or, always a classic, junkie. Why on earth would you even date someone like that? You'd have to know they are like that BEFORE you commit to a relationship! Wow ... |
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If/when you get me to commit I am better than a good s/o. I am a born romantic and honest as they come. I don't cheat, I won't lie, and you always know where you stand with me because I don't play games with people's emotions. That's not saying you will always like what I have to say but it will be how I feel with no manipulation. I am not going to ask you to be someone you aren't but neither will I let you make me someone I am not. It's all about respecting each other and finding value in that.
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depends on who i'm with but mostly, no, because i was with some goofy gals... it's hard to be a good bf when ur gf is a racist redneck, a complete idiot, never talks or, always a classic, junkie. Why on earth would you even date someone like that? You'd have to know they are like that BEFORE you commit to a relationship! Wow ... the racist never admitted to being racist, i thought the idiot was cute (but she was bad in bed and gained weight so that was pointless...), i thought it was just a mtter of time and getting her to open up with the one that never talks and the junkie was 2 yrs clean off heroin when i met her and fell deeply in love. honestly, my being a bad boyfriend coupled with her unrealistic expectations and delusional paranoia are part of why she started using again. so i suck. meh. |
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depends on who i'm with but mostly, no, because i was with some goofy gals... it's hard to be a good bf when ur gf is a racist redneck, a complete idiot, never talks or, always a classic, junkie. Why on earth would you even date someone like that? You'd have to know they are like that BEFORE you commit to a relationship! Wow ... the racist never admitted to being racist, i thought the idiot was cute (but she was bad in bed and gained weight so that was pointless...), i thought it was just a mtter of time and getting her to open up with the one that never talks and the junkie was 2 yrs clean off heroin when i met her and fell deeply in love. honestly, my being a bad boyfriend coupled with her unrealistic expectations and delusional paranoia are part of why she started using again. so i suck. meh. WOW.... i AM keeping my mouth shut on this one |
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you are a good bf/gf, and what makes you that way? Yes, because I'm a good person overall. |
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i like to think i am, but lack of being in relationships limit my decision.
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depends on who i'm with but mostly, no, because i was with some goofy gals... it's hard to be a good bf when ur gf is a racist redneck, a complete idiot, never talks or, always a classic, junkie. Why on earth would you even date someone like that? You'd have to know they are like that BEFORE you commit to a relationship! Wow ... the racist never admitted to being racist, i thought the idiot was cute (but she was bad in bed and gained weight so that was pointless...), i thought it was just a mtter of time and getting her to open up with the one that never talks and the junkie was 2 yrs clean off heroin when i met her and fell deeply in love. honestly, my being a bad boyfriend coupled with her unrealistic expectations and delusional paranoia are part of why she started using again. so i suck. meh. WOW.... i AM keeping my mouth shut on this one DON'T! i am vocal and honest at the risk of being rude and alienating people. please, let me know i'm a dumbash |
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Loyal, and honest...take it or leave it, not everyone enjoys it.
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Loyal, and honest...take it or leave it, not everyone enjoys it. |
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depends on who i'm with but mostly, no, because i was with some goofy gals... it's hard to be a good bf when ur gf is a racist redneck, a complete idiot, never talks or, always a classic, junkie. Why on earth would you even date someone like that? You'd have to know they are like that BEFORE you commit to a relationship! Wow ... the racist never admitted to being racist, i thought the idiot was cute (but she was bad in bed and gained weight so that was pointless...), i thought it was just a mtter of time and getting her to open up with the one that never talks and the junkie was 2 yrs clean off heroin when i met her and fell deeply in love. honestly, my being a bad boyfriend coupled with her unrealistic expectations and delusional paranoia are part of why she started using again. so i suck. meh. WOW.... i AM keeping my mouth shut on this one Me too! *zip it* |
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Loyal, and honest...take it or leave it, not everyone enjoys it. I disagree...I like most women like honesty. What are you guys thinking? |
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Some like it, but tend to have different standards for themselves
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oh please. lie to me..lie-lie-lie...
Really? what woman or man for that matter wants to hear lies? |
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