question : would it be a good idea to give her flowers or ?

bad idea huh?

tell me what to do then i am opento all sugestions, just for an idea

I recommend you give up women all together for a year and go on sabatical to find yourself. Unless you are trying to break Elizabeth Taylor's marriage record.

Ok, I'm done. Wasted breath. And I'm sorry, I shouldn't have posted.

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Now get nekkid

just asking opinions , i need to formulate my thoughts , into something workable,

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Aren't you paying attention?? Stop already! Please, I'm begging you! How many flipping times do you need someone to tell you the same thing?

I agree with Chrissy. Mot only should you take some time off from women, you should seek some therapy while you do.

Trust yourself sir. If you feel like you want to give the lady flowers, then give her flowers. I can't think of too many women who don't like flowers. Just for god's sakes don't ask her a thousand times if she liked them. It will be fine, relax and have a good time.

i just need to know what to do at this point for real , any womans point of view would be greatly apr.

Oh my god not again ! Yesterday gave me a clogged artery!

I'm sorry dude, but you posted yesterday. You've been married three times, are actually still married but have found the girl of your dreams after 1 real date and she told you to go slow and be friends and now you want to know whether to send flowers. Geez O'flip. LISTEN. Go find some quiet and figure out what the hell you are doing. Find yourself. Be yourself. Then you can focus on someone else. Have you ever actually spent any significant time alone with just you and your thoughts?

Give her a flower...with a few words of peace...nothing too over the top. Just a lil something to brighten her day....save the bouquet for later...Cause if you start out big and then try the single long stem rose...it will lose meaning. It is the small considerate things that will add up.

It was too fatty?

yep , i agree go with your gut and dont over do it ,

thanks krupa

Now go meditate on what you've learned.

Oooohhhhhhh still married? Wasn't aware of that....

Maybe some "You" time is appropriate.... maintain and build the friendship with this woman but, consider trying some alone time...'cause if you have been married that many times...you have no experience in being alone.

IT ain't a bad gig bro. It certainly puts things into perspective as far as giving yourself a chance to reflect on where you have been and what you need (as opposed to what you desire)