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ganesh4u
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Tue 03/10/09 05:04 AM
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i love a girl who broke up from a relationship of 6 months. its been more than a year now but she still has feelings for him.i told her that i love her.she said she likes me but is confused between me and him coz he is her first love.she is scared to leave him but she knows he is never going to come back.i have been with this girl for more than a year now,and showed her in all possible ways i could that i love her and care for her. but still nothing seems to work
  ..........plz help
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Time to set some boundaries and walk away. Tell her you will continue to see her only if she can leave every aspect of him behind and concentrate on her relationship with you. Don't expect that to happen. You have wasted enough time on this, your love will not change her feelings.
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I would walk away and let her chase you if she wants. There are plenty of women who love a good man out there. Don't let her comfortable having you around, as a fall back.
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some times i just loose my mind..its that i depend on her too much.....and i even told her that she is a girl i would love to marry.....but sometimes she says she dosent want anything from me....and then she will say she dosent want 2 4get him.but she loves spending time with me........together we have had some wonderful moments.its very hard for me to let go of her....i feel like i m trapped. and the best part is whatever i am going through now. she has already been through that stage!!
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some times i just loose my mind..its that i depend on her too much.....and i even told her that she is a girl i would love to marry.....but sometimes she says she dosent want anything from me....and then she will say she dosent want 2 4get him.but she loves spending time with me........together we have had some wonderful moments.its very hard for me to let go of her....i feel like i m trapped. and the best part is whatever i am going through now. she has already been through that stage!! 
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1. If a woman isn't willing to be exclusive with you...and that is exactly what you want....you have to make a choice to walk away.
2. We teach people how to treat us. What you will tolerate in a relationship isn't something the other person is likely to change....unless you draw that line. |
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i love a girl who broke up from a relationship of 6 months. its been more than a year now but she still has feelings for him.i told her that i love her.she said she likes me but is confused between me and him coz he is her first love.she is scared to leave him but she knows he is never going to come back.i have been with this girl for more than a year now,and showed her in all possible ways i could that i love her and care for her. but still nothing seems to work ..........plz help
 and you've been with her for a year...do the math.....just use her for sex like she is using you until you can find a woman who has moved on.
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i love a girl who broke up from a relationship of 6 months. its been more than a year now but she still has feelings for him.i told her that i love her.she said she likes me but is confused between me and him coz he is her first love.she is scared to leave him but she knows he is never going to come back.i have been with this girl for more than a year now,and showed her in all possible ways i could that i love her and care for her. but still nothing seems to work ..........plz help
and you've been with her for a year...do the math.....just use her for sex like she is using you until you can find a woman who has moved on.
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Actually, there's something else all together to THINK ABOUT HERE!! You may not love HER like you think. You may be addicted to the drama and the elusive butterfly she represesents by NOT loving you in return. You may have become so enveloped in the chase and the habit of the chase and unaware that she isn't the one for you afterall.
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Actually, there's something else all together to THINK ABOUT HERE!! You may not love HER like you think. You may be addicted to the drama and the elusive butterfly she represesents by NOT loving you in return. You may have become so enveloped in the chase and the habit of the chase and unaware that she isn't the one for you afterall. |
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but even if i move on.............how should i do it....coz i have no idea.....this girl is always in my mind.........sometimes i even did silly things cutting my hands. sometimes i cry thinking i will have to leave her if things continue like this..........i swear on god that i love her and i can do anything for her.....plz help me?????
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Let it go. You can't force love to happen no matter how much we all might like to at times. Caring about someone is a kind of love but obviously not what you want from her. And if you aren't getting this from her after over a year it isn't going to happen at this late date. Find someone who can and will be glad to meet your needs and share your life. If it don't fit don't force it~ Good luck~
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but even if i move on.............how should i do it....coz i have no idea.....this girl is always in my mind.........sometimes i even did silly things cutting my hands. sometimes i cry thinking i will have to leave her if things continue like this..........i swear on god that i love her and i can do anything for her.....plz help me????? Cutting yourself is not an answer. You need to go get some help. We can say buck up and move on all day and night, but you need more help than we can give you. |
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i love a girl who broke up from a relationship of 6 months. its been more than a year now but she still has feelings for him.i told her that i love her.she said she likes me but is confused between me and him coz he is her first love.she is scared to leave him but she knows he is never going to come back.i have been with this girl for more than a year now,and showed her in all possible ways i could that i love her and care for her. but still nothing seems to work ..........plz help
Let it go. She's got an ex-trophy. |
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