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Topic: The Spark of Love
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 12:56 PM
Do you think that the "spark" of love begins as a physical, emotional, or intellectual attraction?

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Mon 03/09/09 12:57 PM
emotional....jmo.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 12:58 PM
emotional....jmo. You feel things on an emotional level first?

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 03/09/09 12:59 PM
I don't know.....How good is the sex we are talking about here?

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/09/09 01:00 PM Edited by misstina2 on Mon 03/09/09 01:01 PM
I think its diffrent for everyone and changes as we ageemotional for me but has to be attraction as well the more I like someone the more attracted I am

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:00 PM
I don't know.....How good is the sex we are talking about here? Your spark of love is sexual?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Mon 03/09/09 01:00 PM
I think it's a little of each

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Mon 03/09/09 01:00 PM Edited by 2KidsMom on Mon 03/09/09 01:02 PM
I do...yes... Emotional first.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:01 PM
I think its diffrent for everyone and changes as we ageemotional for me but has to be attraction as well the more I like something the more attracted I am You need to feel an emotional attraction in order to spark feelings of love?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:01 PM
I think it's a little of each Even intellectual?

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/09/09 01:02 PM
I think it's a little of each I agree

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:02 PM
I do...yes... Like if someone is kind to you?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:03 PM
I think it's a little of each I agree In what way do you agree?

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Mon 03/09/09 01:03 PM
I don't know.....How good is the sex we are talking about here? Your spark of love is sexual? What can I say? I am a sexual person.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Mon 03/09/09 01:04 PM
I don't know.....How good is the sex we are talking about here? the sex is great

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Mon 03/09/09 01:04 PM
Yes because a smart man is very sexy to me

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Mon 03/09/09 01:05 PM
I believe there has to be some sort of physical attration, or it just isn't love. You can love someone emotionally, however if you aren't phycially attracted as well, then good you honestly say you truely love them? So to make this short, then it is physical. The others will come in time. Or may not.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 01:05 PM
I don't know.....How good is the sex we are talking about here? Your spark of love is sexual? What can I say? I am a sexual person. I think a lot of us are. What is "good sex" for you?

STARTRAVELER Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 9691	Mon 03/09/09 01:06 PM
In my case intelectual !

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Mon 03/09/09 01:06 PM
Its all about the FEELINGS imo. Watever arouses ur inner feelings, which could be either of the above...and yes, intellectually as well.