Topic: Is it practical?
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:47 PM

I love you Mirror :heart:
blushing well thank youblushing I wasnt expecting that Jillflowers

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:48 PM

Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"?




flowerforyou Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?bigsmile

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:48 PM

what is practical what
Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.flowerforyou
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MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:49 PM


:heart: Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?:heart:


If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so ....

There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love.

A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them.

I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. sad2





surprised Wow!surprised You had people wanting to marry you that never met you in person?surprised

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:51 PM

sure..if you love someone why hide it? do you really have to met someone face to face to tell if you are in love? I think not.. love is more about falling for that persons personalty.... if you can trust that person is being honest with you about everything then I don't see why you can't love them.:heart: smooched



bigsmile You have an excellent point Britneyflowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:51 PM
flowerforyou heres the definition of practical I felt was appropiate for this questionflowerforyou Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.

Pink_lady's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:51 PM


Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"?




flowerforyou Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?bigsmile


Ahh, i see, well is this in the romantic sense? then i would be a bit reluctant to say i loved someone i had never spent any real time with...its hard to trust ur feelings when dealing with online encounters, real life meeting is the defining moment of determining exactly wat u feel for them. Hasty imo.

If however we r talking about friends, then i think thats ok.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:52 PM

:heart: Is love practical?:heart:



bigsmile What do you think Tina?flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:52 PM

I like to think of it as "I love the concept of you"... I'll know more once we meet face to face.


I agree.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:53 PM


Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"?




same here? what

bigsmile How do you define it?flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:54 PM



:heart: Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?:heart:


If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so ....

There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love.

A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them.

I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. sad2




The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love...

I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them.
Ohhhhhhh my nipples just perked up!!!love :wink: laugh

redhead44613's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:54 PM


:heart: Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?:heart:


If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so ....

There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love.

A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them.

I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. sad2


I fell for Randy over the phone..we talked every night for hours for about 2months before we met up in person, I did have a pic of him. but he was so open an honest on the phone it was hard not to fall for him. Then when we did meet it felt so nature to be around him. Sometime things do work out for the better an you get a kind of love you have only dreamed about.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:54 PM



:heart: Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?:heart:


If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so ....

There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love.

A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them.

I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. sad2




The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love...

I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them.



drinker Can a person love someone and not want to hump their leg or marry them?bigsmile

misstina2's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:55 PM


:heart: Is love practical?:heart:



bigsmile What do you think Tina?flowerforyou
perhaps in these uncertain days it isn'tflowerforyou perhaps a person can love someone they haven't met:heart: and when they meet that person that love becomes deeper:heart:

redhead44613's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:55 PM


sure..if you love someone why hide it? do you really have to met someone face to face to tell if you are in love? I think not.. love is more about falling for that persons personalty.... if you can trust that person is being honest with you about everything then I don't see why you can't love them.:heart: smooched



bigsmile You have an excellent point Britneyflowerforyou
smooched kisses for Lee..

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:57 PM


what is practical what
Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.flowerforyou
.



bigsmile You are rightflowerforyou

redhead44613's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:57 PM




:heart: Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?:heart:


If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so ....

There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love.

A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them.

I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. sad2




The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love...

I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them.



drinker Can a person love someone and not want to hump their leg or marry them?bigsmile
lol sure you can.. I love a lot of people on here an I have no desire to hump their leg or anything.. heheh. like you Lee I love ya like a big brother. :heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:57 PM

flowerforyou heres the definition of practical I felt was appropiate for this questionflowerforyou Level-headed, efficient, and unspeculative.




flowerforyou You are so intelligent Tinaflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 03/05/09 12:58 PM



Im feelin a bit dumb here! but wat do you mean by "practical"?




flowerforyou Is it a good idea to tell someone you met online that you love them?bigsmile


Ahh, i see, well is this in the romantic sense? then i would be a bit reluctant to say i loved someone i had never spent any real time with...its hard to trust ur feelings when dealing with online encounters, real life meeting is the defining moment of determining exactly wat u feel for them. Hasty imo.

If however we r talking about friends, then i think thats ok.



flowerforyou Well said and thank you for your excellent postingbigsmile

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Thu 03/05/09 12:58 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 03/05/09 01:00 PM



:heart: Is it practical to tell someone you met online that you love them?:heart:


If you haven't met them in person .... I don't belive so ....

There are two very equal and separate parts to being IN love. Both the physical chemistry as well as the emotional connection are needed for romantic love.

A person might 'love' someone else by their online persona but not necessarily be IN love with them.

I have met a few guys online that I swore I could marry based on our phone conversations and emails. Once I met them in person, but that attraction waned to friendship because the physical chemistry just wasn't there. sad2




The question was, if you love someone....not IN love.... but love...

I love the Who of Gypsy.... Artgurl, S1owhand... and a gazillion others.... doesn't mean I want to hump their leg, or marry them.


I was just expanding the topic. whoa My answer remains the same. winking