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This is going to come off as me sounding a bit arrogant, but I assure you I am not. Do you ever feel the person you are dating thinks you are too good for them? This happens to me way more than it to be just a coincidence. I don't think super highly of myself (I don't hate myself) but I certainly don't have anything to brag about. I mean I have a very low income, moved back home with my parents etc etc. However, I am moving in the right direction with education and all. But I meet these girls who seem just so different than me. They always have a messed up past, bad family life, bad exes, or whatever. I come across as sort of on the straight and narrow, and they kind of freak out. Now I know this sounds like a borderline "nice guy" thread, but not quite. I am just wondering if it is because I am usually dating girls from the bar scene, or I am naturally attracted to girls who have issues or what? Has anyone felt this way?
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Wed 03/04/09 09:51 PM
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This is going to come off as me sounding a bit arrogant, but I assure you I am not. Do you ever feel the person you are dating thinks you are too good for them? This happens to me way more than it to be just a coincidence. I don't think super highly of myself (I don't hate myself) but I certainly don't have anything to brag about. I mean I have a very low income, moved back home with my parents etc etc. However, I am moving in the right direction with education and all. But I meet these girls who seem just so different than me. They always have a messed up past, bad family life, bad exes, or whatever. I come across as sort of on the straight and narrow, and they kind of freak out. Now I know this sounds like a borderline "nice guy" thread, but not quite. I am just wondering if it is because I am usually dating girls from the bar scene, or I am naturally attracted to girls who have issues or what? Has anyone felt this way? Well, I am going to flip this one. Rather than thinking they may feel as though you are too good for them, why are you always dating girls with issues? That usually means YOU have esteem issues. People that feel badly about themselves repeat cycles of dating the wrong people. They attract people with a host of problems because they are not comfortable in their own skin. They won't raise the bar to meet a more quality, balanced, motivated, self aware, and independent person. Deep in their psyche they believe they cannot attract and keep a person of certain stature because they have low regard for themselves. They date a person that is even worse off than themselves. Just stirring the pot a little .... 
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This is going to come off as me sounding a bit arrogant, but I assure you I am not. Do you ever feel the person you are dating thinks you are too good for them? This happens to me way more than it to be just a coincidence. I don't think super highly of myself (I don't hate myself) but I certainly don't have anything to brag about. I mean I have a very low income, moved back home with my parents etc etc. However, I am moving in the right direction with education and all. But I meet these girls who seem just so different than me. They always have a messed up past, bad family life, bad exes, or whatever. I come across as sort of on the straight and narrow, and they kind of freak out. Now I know this sounds like a borderline "nice guy" thread, but not quite. I am just wondering if it is because I am usually dating girls from the bar scene, or I am naturally attracted to girls who have issues or what? Has anyone felt this way? Well, I am going to flip this one. Rather than thinking they may feel as though you are too good for them, why are you always dating girls with issues? That usually means YOU have esteem issues. People that feel badly about themselves repeat cycles of dating the wrong people. They attract people with a host of problems because they are not comfortable in their own skin. They won't raise the bar to meet a more quality, balanced, motivated, self aware, and independent person. Just stirring the pot a little ....
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just be glad you have dates i would take even one date with a girl with issues but thats just me
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This is going to come off as me sounding a bit arrogant, but I assure you I am not. Do you ever feel the person you are dating thinks you are too good for them? This happens to me way more than it to be just a coincidence. I don't think super highly of myself (I don't hate myself) but I certainly don't have anything to brag about. I mean I have a very low income, moved back home with my parents etc etc. However, I am moving in the right direction with education and all. But I meet these girls who seem just so different than me. They always have a messed up past, bad family life, bad exes, or whatever. I come across as sort of on the straight and narrow, and they kind of freak out. Now I know this sounds like a borderline "nice guy" thread, but not quite. I am just wondering if it is because I am usually dating girls from the bar scene, or I am naturally attracted to girls who have issues or what? Has anyone felt this way? Well, I am going to flip this one. Rather than thinking they may feel as though you are too good for them, why are you always dating girls with issues? That usually means YOU have esteem issues. People that feel badly about themselves repeat cycles of dating the wrong people. They attract people with a host of problems because they are not comfortable in their own skin. They won't raise the bar to meet a more quality, balanced, motivated, self aware, and independent person. Deep in their psyche they believe they cannot attract and keep a person of certain stature because they have low regard for themselves. They date a person that is even worse off than themselves. Just stirring the pot a little ....
beautifully said  
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just be glad you have dates i would take even one date with a girl with issues but thats just me |
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I find that if I pay her up front, she relaxes and it's fine.
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I find that if I pay her up front, she relaxes and it's fine.  
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I find that if I pay her up front, she relaxes and it's fine. no, I have never went that route
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I find that if I pay her up front, she relaxes and it's fine. lmao |
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Just to stir it some more, some of us don't have these issues and aim high but still have no luck, so what does that mean?
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