Topic: Rate me Plz
goldenarrow's photo
Wed 03/04/09 08:34 AM
Hello everyone would you please rate me? I am new to dating and any help would be great. Thanks Chris

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Wed 03/04/09 08:37 AM

Hello everyone would you please rate me? I am new to dating and any help would be great. Thanks Chris
Welcome and good luck buddy!

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Wed 03/04/09 08:48 AM
You might add a few things about what you are looking for in a person and a bit more about you. Be a bit more descriptive....but all in good it's a decent profile...welcome home...have fun and good luck!bigsmile flowerforyou

goldenarrow's photo
Wed 03/04/09 09:50 AM
Thanks I filled in a lil more.

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Wed 03/04/09 09:59 AM
Essay is still a little light, but overall good job. Welcome to the site!

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/04/09 10:03 AM
Add at least four more sentences to your profile, and a photo where a person can see what you look like, (no hat).... that would be great.

To sum it up, like Simon Cowell says, you need to be less forgettable. Brief generic blurbs are really not eye catching. Do something so you stand out. The best way to do that is to insert your personality in there and avoid generic useless terms like laid back, easy going, nice, fun, etc etc etc

Good luck to you. flowerforyou

goldenarrow's photo
Wed 03/04/09 11:14 AM
Thank you. I listed what I do. can you look at it again thank you

lilith401's photo
Wed 03/04/09 11:17 AM
Courteous (sp)


Yes, it is much better!

goldenarrow's photo
Wed 03/04/09 11:18 AM
Than Youwaving

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 03/04/09 11:36 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 03/04/09 11:38 AM
HI happy

Definately add a pic without a hat so a lady can see your 'out to dinner look'. Well, you know, a different look than how you would work around the house.

You mention kids a lot. I know it's hard for single parents to date but kids shouldn't even come into the romantic/dating picture until you know the situation is turning serious. It's great to mention them, but I would focus your profile more on you -- as an individual -- and not as a parent. If you meet a wonderful lady then show your parent side and all that goes with being a single parent. Mention goals in your profile: travel, education, future ambitions. That will inspire conversation! winking

Take my comments regarding kids with a grain of salt; I mention it only with the greatest of respect. I am not a parent and I don't date men with kids. I just know from talking to some of my single girlfriends that do date men with kids that this as an issue too early in the relationship. I suppose the theory is to know the 'man' first before knowing the 'family man/parent'.

Have a super time dating! flowerforyou This is a great site! :banana:

7z3r05's photo
Wed 03/04/09 12:51 PM
You're pretty effing cool.