Topic: Who would have guessed....
Lynn89's photo
Mon 03/02/09 10:35 AM
that at 58 the hot steamy sex for a woman is gone. Who would have guessed that your life long partner was going to be your dog or your mother or your kids? Who would have guessed that being alone wasn't an option but a circumstance beyond your control? Who would have guessed that internet dating was preferrable to regular dating? Who would have guessed that at 58 and retired life could such so bad? Who would have guessed that women still want a man in their lives after all the hurts, the lies, the deceit and the lessons. Who would have guessed that humans are such gluttons for punishment?

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Mon 03/02/09 10:36 AM
*hugz* you tell it sistah...and i'm 40

Want2B5ft's photo
Mon 03/02/09 10:37 AM

lilith401's photo
Mon 03/02/09 10:39 AM
Welcome to the site. Fill that glass to halfway!

MeChrissy2's photo
Mon 03/02/09 10:40 AM
I will not go gently into that good night and neither should you. You have forgotten that at 58, you are an awesome, wonderful, strong woman with everything to give and go out and give it. Breath, scream, rage, and even love. Just don't walk gently.flowerforyou

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Mon 03/02/09 10:43 AM
Dont give up!!!!

Im still going to make men crazy at 58 and so will you!!!devil drinker :banana:

irad8you's photo
Mon 03/02/09 10:44 AM
Hi and welcome, there are wonderful people here. You will make many friends.:smile:

irad8you's photo
Mon 03/02/09 10:44 AM
You need a shave bad gyspy lol
Dont give up!!!!

Im still going to make men crazy at 58 and so will you!!!devil drinker :banana:

Winx's photo
Mon 03/02/09 11:08 AM

that at 58 the hot steamy sex for a woman is gone. Who would have guessed that your life long partner was going to be your dog or your mother or your kids? Who would have guessed that being alone wasn't an option but a circumstance beyond your control? Who would have guessed that internet dating was preferrable to regular dating? Who would have guessed that at 58 and retired life could such so bad? Who would have guessed that women still want a man in their lives after all the hurts, the lies, the deceit and the lessons. Who would have guessed that humans are such gluttons for punishment?


My step-grandmother was married in her sixties to my grandfather. She outlived him. She married again in her 70's. She's still shopping strong and taking care of grandchildren in her 80's.

There's nothing wrong with internet dating. I like it.

Good luck and have fun.

Welcome to Mingle.flowerforyou

Btw, I'm going to be 50 this summer and there's nothing wrong with that.happy

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 03/02/09 11:46 AM
Well, I suppose you can have high hopes...or you can drown in sorrow and pity.

tanyaann's photo
Mon 03/02/09 11:48 AM
Welcome to site! flowerforyou What you put out in the world, is what you will get back! Think positive! :smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/02/09 01:20 PM

that at 58 the hot steamy sex for a woman is gone. Who would have guessed that your life long partner was going to be your dog or your mother or your kids? Who would have guessed that being alone wasn't an option but a circumstance beyond your control? Who would have guessed that internet dating was preferrable to regular dating? Who would have guessed that at 58 and retired life could such so bad? Who would have guessed that women still want a man in their lives after all the hurts, the lies, the deceit and the lessons. Who would have guessed that humans are such gluttons for punishment?

flowerforyou I hope things get better for you and you can see the positive things in lifeflowerforyou

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Mon 03/02/09 04:01 PM
Yeah, well here we are.laugh