I have been told many times lately that my profile is cute or just that I am cute. I really don't get the impression that they mean it in a good way, but I am going to cross my fingers and hope that someone on here isn't afraid the be honest with me. Thanks to all that waste their time doing this when they could do so much more.

Just accept a good compliment and get on with it...

Be happy anybody cares enough to tell you anything many times. The only place you're going to find validation is inside the_wizard67.

hang in the forums and you'll get more out of this site, and make excellent friends.

The_Wizard67 is right though. I even admit to telling a guy he is cute when really he is not so his feelings are not hurt. They usually wont say hot or gorgeous or yummy. You know? So I completely understand where you are coming from. And btw you are handsome. Not cute and Im not saying that to hurt your feelings. ; )

ok maybe I didn't ask the question well enough. I am not trying to validate myself and I am sure that several will argue that point, but what I was asking is this, in your oppinion are they saying this because it might be true or ar they just saying to try and be nice and really mean something totally different?

To be nice.

Well thanks, I was just wanting to get some honest opinions even if they are negative in nater. I am a big boy and I can handle the truth. That is why we all do this on the net anyhow right, so that we can hide and have no need of being scared of hurting someone's feelings?

If they are just trying to be nice and don't really mean a bit of it then that is fine to, I was just wondering what it meant. I would really like to know what these people are seeing that is making them say something like that, but I don't expect to find that out.

Why don't you ask them in a nice way what they meant?

Oh I think he is really adorable...

Come on we all now how that goes. You nothing but echoes. You are expected to just know, which is why my country butt is here asking question about this city game on the net. Someone out there knows the answer, but will they tell me or any of us?

I think I scared him.

You didn't scare me, why would you think that?

How can you expect someone to speak for anybody else? You, like so many others, seek the magic bullet. It doesn't exist.

I wouldn't really say that I am looking for a magic bullet, just wondering if those phrases or maybe just the word cute is used on here to just politely saying something that a particular person doesn't think you want to hear or maybe can handle? Honesty seems to be something that is either almost impossible or already is impossible to find on here.

I see where you might have reservations. This site and many like it, there are untrustworthy people. However, you must have trust somewhere, to begin to find what you are looking for. The benefit of the doubt is always a good place to start.

*Sighs* Not everybody attaches the same meaning to a phrase. Expecting somebody else to answer this for you is not going to work. Besides, it sounds to me like you just want confirmation of what you believe you already know.


Many people lie. A few are completely honest. Others tell some version of the truth. That's the way of the world. You are on the wrong planet if you're expecting honesty all the time. Unfortunately, it is not the way of this world. Buck up and deal with it. Or not. I'm done here. Good luck.

HIP HIP HOORAY...cheers LOO

Maybe you are right I ask too much for simply asking for honesty. I much be part of a race that is on the brink of extinction because I do beilieve in honesty. Honest men have only no longer exist, because we as mean chose to not do the right thing because it is the right thing to do. We however, have chosen the path of least resistance and lie whenever it is convenient to us. I am not nieve nor am I inocent, but I do believe that noone is forced to lie, we just choose to do it. If we all wanted that world to exist again, then we would need only to simply start living our lives as a whole like that again and it would be revived. I suppose your question to that would be what are you getting out of it that is worth you doing it? The answer in my opinion is your dignity and pride. Do those things really have so little value to everyone?