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Topic: Get under to get over
hrt4lse's photo
Sat 02/28/09 08:41 PM




no it can only make matters worse


flowerforyou thats possiblebigsmile


Very possible. Especially when you call the new gf/bf by the olds namenoway noway noway



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!


What's bad is when you call your boss by your ex's name & you've been divorced for 10 years embarassed grumble embarassed

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 02/28/09 08:43 PM
No. That's seriously bad advice.

Adamal29's photo
Sat 02/28/09 08:44 PM

:heart: Is it true that the best way to get over an old love is to get under a new one?:heart:
tried it, didn't work. Wasn't even that fun either.

popcornncoke's photo
Sat 02/28/09 08:48 PM

No.

Rebound relationships don't work.

We need time to heal before we move on and try to start a new relationship. I also believe there is al ot more to a relationship then just sex.
So very true.

Want2B5ft's photo
Sat 02/28/09 09:54 PM

Can't find anyone to be my rebound so I don't know. Now all I get to do is think and cry. Yeah me.noway


:cry: flowerforyou :cry: brokenheart :cry:

Want2B5ft's photo
Sat 02/28/09 09:54 PM

No.

Rebound relationships don't work.

We need time to heal before we move on and try to start a new relationship. I also believe there is al ot more to a relationship then just sex.


Agree.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 02/28/09 09:55 PM

I think it would delay the greiving process... but it would be fun, too.


I second that ... drinker

74Drew's photo
Sat 02/28/09 10:02 PM

:heart: Is it true that the best way to get over an old love is to get under a new one?:heart:


in the short term, i think it can be therapeutic to show yourself that people still find you appealing.

in the long term, i think you just need to let the old love wear off.

txmomof2's photo
Sat 02/28/09 10:05 PM




no it can only make matters worse


flowerforyou thats possiblebigsmile


Very possible. Especially when you call the new gf/bf by the olds namenoway noway noway



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!


Never done it but had it done to me

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 03/01/09 08:55 AM





no it can only make matters worse


flowerforyou thats possiblebigsmile


Very possible. Especially when you call the new gf/bf by the olds namenoway noway noway



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!


What's bad is when you call your boss by your ex's name & you've been divorced for 10 years embarassed grumble embarassed
laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 03/02/09 05:50 PM
Fall Out Boy---America's Suitehearts

You could have knocked me out with a feather
I know you heard this all before, but were just hell's neighbors
Wh-wh-why won't the world revolve around me?
Build my dreams, trees grow all over the streets

But I don't know much about classic cars
But I got a lot of friends talking classic coke
Down set, one, hut, hut, hike
Media, please

Let's hear it for America's sweethearts
But I must confess
I'm in love with my own sins
Let's hear it for America's sweethearts
But I must confess
I'm in love with my own sins

You can bow and pretend
That you don't, don't, know you're a legend
Time, time, time hasn't told anyone else yet
Let my love loose again

But I don't know much about classic cars
But I got a lot of friends talking classic coke
Down set, one, hut, hut, hike
Media, please

Let's hear it for America's suitehearts
But I must confess
I'm in love with my own sins
Let's hear it for America's swuitehearts
But I must confess
I'm in love with my own sins

You could have knocked me out with a (feather)
I know you heard this all before

Let's hear it for America's suitehearts
But I must confess
I'm in love with my own sins
Let's hear it for America's swuitehearts
But I must confess (I must confess)
I'm in love with my own sins

Let's hear it
Oh, let's hear it
Let's hear it
Oh, let's
Suitehearts

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fVAPvMx3pA0

BoyNextDoor83's photo
Mon 03/02/09 05:56 PM
nope. doesn't work... after my divorce, I got my GF, and we were together for 6-7 months. Helped b/c you had company, a shoulder to cry on etc. but eventually it didn't work out. you need your own space, your time to yourself, and the breathing room. to get over things...

Finally over it.

Who's available? flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 03/03/09 01:15 PM

nope. doesn't work... after my divorce, I got my GF, and we were together for 6-7 months. Helped b/c you had company, a shoulder to cry on etc. but eventually it didn't work out. you need your own space, your time to yourself, and the breathing room. to get over things...

Finally over it.

Who's available? flowerforyou


drinks

lovethelord's photo
Tue 03/03/09 04:14 PM

:heart: Is it true that the best way to get over an old love is to get under a new one?:heart:



I dont date guys fresh out of a divorce or breakup because they are still hurting and totaly focused on that other relationship..
You are just a springboard for their pain and a shoulder to cry to and its not fair to either one...
unless its just a one night stand sortof thing.....but then again your just trying to numb the pain and you still wont feel better.....

7z3r05's photo
Tue 03/03/09 04:18 PM

:heart: Is it true that the best way to get over an old love is to get under a new one?:heart:


nah all youre doing is dumping your baggage on someone else.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Tue 03/03/09 04:21 PM
No. There has to be a grieving process first.

special_guy's photo
Tue 03/03/09 04:22 PM

:heart: Is it true that the best way to get over an old love is to get under a new one?:heart:



I've been used to get over the other lover and I have to admit that the sex was pretty dam good.... we did nothing except F@C! for about a week and I have never seen her again.... I think she moved to freedom NY

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 03/04/09 03:05 PM


:heart: Is it true that the best way to get over an old love is to get under a new one?:heart:



I dont date guys fresh out of a divorce or breakup because they are still hurting and totaly focused on that other relationship..
You are just a springboard for their pain and a shoulder to cry to and its not fair to either one...
unless its just a one night stand sortof thing.....but then again your just trying to numb the pain and you still wont feel better.....






flowerforyou

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