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Topic: What do I do? She says shes depressed.
ramdakota Joined Thu 12/04/08 Posts: 40	Thu 02/26/09 04:12 PM
You have to give women time yes they are more mature ,But they take a little longer decideding what they want in life.If you try to decide for them you are invanding their space.they can trun on you again.Be carful hang lose a while if she loved you then she will come back or call.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/26/09 04:14 PM
Let her go man I have been done like that too.Show her that you can get someone else if you don't and you keep hanging on you what they say smouther her and then she will turn to hate. "Showing her that you can get someone else?" Isn't that playing games?

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Thu 02/26/09 04:15 PM
get'em ladies bronco ride'em

mry Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 8401	Thu 02/26/09 04:16 PM
My first husband and I broke up because he didn't do anything to help save us...now he wants me back. GO GET HER!!!!

DvDstyle Joined Sun 09/21/08 Posts: 41	Thu 02/26/09 04:17 PM
and anything after my first or second message wasnt really my way of thinking

zman000081 Joined Thu 11/29/07 Posts: 4859	Thu 02/26/09 04:18 PM
Dv you have alot to learn about life before you can judge. You think you have a grasp on it but I will let ya know compared to ALOT of others you might only have a chapter of your book. Yeah your young and think the rules dont apply unfortunatly with that attitude your future her dosent look to bright. Yes we each have our own opinions but we also share the RESPECT of others thoughts.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 02/26/09 04:18 PM
get'em ladies bronco ride'em And my apologies to the OP...seems he riled me enough to change the subject. Just give her a minute, pressure will only irritate the situation. Give her a few days and call and leave a message saying you were just checking to see if she was ok or needs to talk.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 02/26/09 04:20 PM
you know what i cant even say stuff on here fruitcake mark deleted some of my stuff and so this is my last message, no one here should talk if you new you wouldnt be here....you need help ask jesus christ he is the only answer the only way...if you dont follow him you will suffer and its not even by his hand, you make and create your own problems And even Jesus doesn't appreciate the name calling...come back when you are all grown up

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Thu 02/26/09 04:23 PM
i have know right? thats a funny thing to say, whats also funny is how you still think your right which in ur case you might but sweetheart i look at facts and i think no one person can handle life alone and if you love someone that someone should help you its gods plan, and if they dont do that then they dont love you and but the thing with women is that they think they need to test all there men, and it hurts, it ****s you up, so based on my past women cant think for themselves and men cant live with themselves This may be your experience...but at your age...how can you judge all women? I have been successful in raising 5 children on my own without one drop of help from their father and I continue to love and respect them as they do me. I can live my life with or without a man at my side...but I have many people that love me...and I guarantee I will not grow old, or die alone...but that would be my choice...not yours. You have a lot of growing up to do...and WE STILL don't put up with this crap...be civil, be kind...or leave...READ THE RULES...I really don't want ot push that magic button...but I will if I have to. All we ask is that we all be treated in a civil manner...you are in no way, shape or form, making friends on this site by the way you are talking to people...whole other ball game here...and that is why we are on this site. Kim, you are my hero. Thank you so much for just being you. C

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 02/26/09 04:24 PM
i have know right? thats a funny thing to say, whats also funny is how you still think your right which in ur case you might but sweetheart i look at facts and i think no one person can handle life alone and if you love someone that someone should help you its gods plan, and if they dont do that then they dont love you and but the thing with women is that they think they need to test all there men, and it hurts, it ****s you up, so based on my past women cant think for themselves and men cant live with themselves This may be your experience...but at your age...how can you judge all women? I have been successful in raising 5 children on my own without one drop of help from their father and I continue to love and respect them as they do me. I can live my life with or without a man at my side...but I have many people that love me...and I guarantee I will not grow old, or die alone...but that would be my choice...not yours. You have a lot of growing up to do...and WE STILL don't put up with this crap...be civil, be kind...or leave...READ THE RULES...I really don't want ot push that magic button...but I will if I have to. All we ask is that we all be treated in a civil manner...you are in no way, shape or form, making friends on this site by the way you are talking to people...whole other ball game here...and that is why we are on this site. Kim, you are my hero. Thank you so much for just being you. C

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 02/26/09 04:33 PM
i have know right? thats a funny thing to say, whats also funny is how you still think your right which in ur case you might but sweetheart i look at facts and i think no one person can handle life alone and if you love someone that someone should help you its gods plan, and if they dont do that then they dont love you and but the thing with women is that they think they need to test all there men, and it hurts, it ****s you up, so based on my past women cant think for themselves and men cant live with themselves This may be your experience...but at your age...how can you judge all women? I have been successful in raising 5 children on my own without one drop of help from their father and I continue to love and respect them as they do me. I can live my life with or without a man at my side...but I have many people that love me...and I guarantee I will not grow old, or die alone...but that would be my choice...not yours. You have a lot of growing up to do...and WE STILL don't put up with this crap...be civil, be kind...or leave...READ THE RULES...I really don't want ot push that magic button...but I will if I have to. All we ask is that we all be treated in a civil manner...you are in no way, shape or form, making friends on this site by the way you are talking to people...whole other ball game here...and that is why we are on this site. Kim, you are my hero. Thank you so much for just being you. C Yeah, Kim is great

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 02/26/09 04:35 PM
i have know right? thats a funny thing to say, whats also funny is how you still think your right which in ur case you might but sweetheart i look at facts and i think no one person can handle life alone and if you love someone that someone should help you its gods plan, and if they dont do that then they dont love you and but the thing with women is that they think they need to test all there men, and it hurts, it ****s you up, so based on my past women cant think for themselves and men cant live with themselves This may be your experience...but at your age...how can you judge all women? I have been successful in raising 5 children on my own without one drop of help from their father and I continue to love and respect them as they do me. I can live my life with or without a man at my side...but I have many people that love me...and I guarantee I will not grow old, or die alone...but that would be my choice...not yours. You have a lot of growing up to do...and WE STILL don't put up with this crap...be civil, be kind...or leave...READ THE RULES...I really don't want ot push that magic button...but I will if I have to. All we ask is that we all be treated in a civil manner...you are in no way, shape or form, making friends on this site by the way you are talking to people...whole other ball game here...and that is why we are on this site. Kim, you are my hero. Thank you so much for just being you. C aww....thanks Sweetie Yeah, Kim is great

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Thu 02/26/09 04:36 PM
sounds like shes just not into you

markecephus Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 13831	Thu 02/26/09 04:36 PM
Hey guys, lol, back to the topic, signed, Fruitcake...

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/26/09 04:38 PM
I don't like fruitcake.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 02/26/09 04:38 PM
I don't like fruitcake. I love fruitcake

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 02/26/09 04:39 PM
I don't like fruitcake. I love fruitcake

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Thu 02/26/09 04:40 PM
I would say move on.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 02/26/09 04:41 PM
I don't like fruitcake. I love fruitcake And I think I worked up an appetite...brb....lol

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Thu 02/26/09 04:56 PM
You, my friend, are stuck between a rock and a hard place. You should keep moving on with your life, but maintain "friend" contact, MAINLY because you going all goofy over her will turn her off...