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now i'm lonely and even though i love my babies more then anything in this world i wish that i could just have some adult conversation.
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Wondering if anyone has made bad relationship decisions because they felt lonely. Don't really want to put myself out there again just yet but feeling lonely. Just not sure how to wrap my mind around it. Any ideas? It must be bad, I can't even spell lonely right. Sorry. I think the worst realtionship decision I've made is not even trying to start one, but that's not because of loniness. |
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It's hard to believe you could be lonely, Chrissy. Those guys in Virginia must have their heads up in a very dark place... But, getting to your question. I think most of us have jumped a bit too quickly into relationships while on the rebound, ergo while lonely. Those relationships seldom last long and become lonely again even before the breakup... in my experiences. However, that is not to mean that we sit in a vacuum waiting for a dream mate to enter into our life. We can enjoy the dating, adventuring, and yes, even the sexing, without expecting a relationship out of every encountered friendship. In the process of living life and enjoying new friendships we should begin to feel the heartstrings being tugged and the loins being stirred and we regain that feeling of falling in love then we have found a precious soul that we would not dare miss dancing through life with. BUT we will not meet that soul without taking the chance, the chance that we will meet a few non soul mates along the road to happy destiny. Just my take... Wonderful response, thank you so much. 
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i understand loneliness. i have been without a girlfriend for 15 years and even that girl didn't actually love me. i know that a lot of my being alone is a direct result of my own actions, but it still hurts and i've wondered what it is that make me so unlovable.
i definitely feel your pain. |
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Wondering if anyone has made bad relationship decisions because they felt lonely. Don't really want to put myself out there again just yet but feeling lonely. Just not sure how to wrap my mind around it. Any ideas? It must be bad, I can't even spell lonely right. Sorry. Yes, I can relate to what you are mentioning here. Coz I have gone through this phase once. My advise is never ever make relationship for the heck of making it or becos of the lonliness. The day will come when you will feel emotionally better and then your eyes would open and you'll phase all the consequences of a bad decisions. However, having said that, sometimes relationship made in desperation can be longlasting too. But, I would suggest you to play safe. |
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i understand loneliness. i have been without a girlfriend for 15 years and even that girl didn't actually love me. i know that a lot of my being alone is a direct result of my own actions, but it still hurts and i've wondered what it is that make me so unlovable. i definitely feel your pain. I've thought the same.
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Edited by
74Drew
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Thu 02/26/09 09:50 AM
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i understand loneliness. i have been without a girlfriend for 15 years and even that girl didn't actually love me. i know that a lot of my being alone is a direct result of my own actions, but it still hurts and i've wondered what it is that make me so unlovable. i definitely feel your pain. I've thought the same. just realize that you haven't found someone that's able to love you the way you deserve and that you shouldn't settle for less than you deserve. have faith that someone capable and deserving will come your way. |
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