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vivacious38 Joined Sat 02/14/09 Posts: 2	Mon 02/23/09 04:54 PM
What does it mean when a guy says to you "It's not you it's me"? Mind you we are only friends and all of a sudden he seems to no longer want to talk to me. No reason, no explation. Doesn't answer my calls or text messages.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Mon 02/23/09 04:55 PM
What does it mean when a guy says to you "It's not you it's me"? Mind you we are only friends and all of a sudden he seems to no longer want to talk to me. No reason, no explation. Doesn't answer my calls or text messages. I think he is trying to tell you that something is going on with him.

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Mon 02/23/09 04:56 PM
More than likely its cold feet!!!

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Mon 02/23/09 04:56 PM
Its you, you didn't turn him on and he is off with someone else now.

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21804	Mon 02/23/09 04:56 PM
He's found somebody else or he's just not that into you and he doesn't have the guts to tell you why.

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Mon 02/23/09 04:59 PM
He Doesnt know....Move on.....We dont blame nothing on ourselves

Kealis Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 46	Mon 02/23/09 05:09 PM
well maybe he got feelings for you and did not want to hurt you because he knows that he would... or maybe he was screwing your best friend lol

elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Mon 02/23/09 05:09 PM
I dunno.. You can call me though.. I'm in the Book.

Ainjel Joined Sat 01/24/09 Posts: 3610	Mon 02/23/09 07:11 PM
What does it mean when a guy says to you "It's not you it's me"? Mind you we are only friends and all of a sudden he seems to no longer want to talk to me. No reason, no explation. Doesn't answer my calls or text messages. An excuse to say 'leave me alone,not interested'...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 02/23/09 07:12 PM
He's just not interested & he's putting it in a nice way.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Mon 02/23/09 07:14 PM
w3ll it means that you arent 'doing anything for him' and he likes you as a person but is unsure if he wants to get serious.

vivacious38 Joined Sat 02/14/09 Posts: 2	Mon 02/23/09 07:17 PM
We've been friends for 5 months. talked about everything, shared so many thoughts and feelings. I care for him as a friend. So how do I get him to talk to me and tell me what is going on?

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Mon 02/23/09 07:19 PM
We've been friends for 5 months. talked about everything, shared so many thoughts and feelings. I care for him as a friend. So how do I get him to talk to me and tell me what is going on? Dont.....Move on...Or you can always tag along

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 02/23/09 07:20 PM
What does it mean when a guy says to you "It's not you it's me"? Mind you we are only friends and all of a sudden he seems to no longer want to talk to me. No reason, no explation. Doesn't answer my calls or text messages. It means he has an issue in his life to deal with and its not your fault

mmmike Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 556	Mon 02/23/09 07:21 PM
He wants to move on.

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Mon 02/23/09 07:26 PM
it seems to me that you kept him in the friend zone for too long and he's decided that that's not where he wants to be so he's going to look for someone else. when someone says "it's not you, it's me" it generally means that it's not you but how you make them feel. so it sort of is the truth.