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Edited by
Peccy
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Mars? Venus? Perhaps, but it's usually much more simplistic than that. We (men) are taught at an early age to not show weaknesses, so instead we hide them. So when we get hurt we counteract that emotion by showing strength, i.e. anger.
A real man never takes that anger to physical extremes (toward a woman or anyone) but that's why we say those hateful things....because we are protecting ourselves and our feelings. Does this make sense to anyone on a Sunday night? |
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Women are from Mars.
Men have penis. |
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what thye hell is that supposed to mean???
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what thye hell is that supposed to mean??? 
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Mars? Venus? Perhaps, but it's usually much more simplistic than that. We (men) are taught at an early age to not show weaknesses, so instead we hide them. So when we get hurt we counteract that emotion by showing strength, i.e. anger. A real man never takes that anger to physical extremes (toward a woman or anyone) but that's why we say those hateful things....because we are protecting ourselves and our feelings. Does this make sense to anyone on a Sunday night? Exactly. It's a defense mechanism. It's also a means to put a point across when we're given a bunch of malarkey to deal with as well. |
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what thye hell is that supposed to mean???  
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what thye hell is that supposed to mean??? Hey wolf.. kindof quite... Why dont you pick a topic?.. I need a laugh..  |
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Of course...it would make sense Monday thru Saturday tooo
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i'm a woman and when i was little my father wished he had had a boy so i was sort of raised like one for awhile and to this day i am probably meaner with words because i wasnt supposed to show weakness so i believe that its about weakness as well
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because women test us all the time its frigging frustrating and down right annoying there I said it.. oh sh*t damn near got hit with an iron skillet.
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women want attention,effection and respect
men want women,sex,sports,and 12" table saw |
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Mars? Venus? Perhaps, but it's usually much more simplistic than that. We (men) are taught at an early age to not show weaknesses, so instead we hide them. So when we get hurt we counteract that emotion by showing strength, i.e. anger. A real man never takes that anger to physical extremes (toward a woman or anyone) but that's why we say those hateful things....because we are protecting ourselves and our feelings. Does this make sense to anyone on a Sunday night? Exactly. It's a defense mechanism. It's also a means to put a point across when we're given a bunch of malarkey to deal with as well. Women do it too for the very same reason, as a defense mechanism. He calls her a b!itch. She calls him an azzhole. (or whatever words you want to insert) Both are doing it as a means to defend themselves from the hurt that was inflicted from the other person. Right? |
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So, since it is not okay to beat up a woman with your fists, you beat her down with harsh words?
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It makes sense Peccy.. Some women react the same way...
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I totally understand...even if its Sunday.
My step father is that way. |
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women want attention,effection and respect men want women,sex,sports,and 12" table saw
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Edited by
Peccy
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Sun 02/22/09 08:58 PM
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So, since it is not okay to beat up a woman with your fists, you beat her down with harsh words? |
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