Topic: So if you sleep with a man on the SECOND date...
Marley's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:49 PM

will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL


What do you want to hear?

MeChrissy2's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:49 PM
Meg, that's a great point. There is something to be said for great sex with no relationship. I'll have to ponder that.

mry's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:54 PM


will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL


What do you want to hear?


LOL...I didn't do the deed!!

cuppy59's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:57 PM

Signs point to ............












yes. Got dumped, but the sex was PHENOMINAL!! Go figure???


Damn girl....I would have resorted to blackmail, then!!laugh

Meg8771's photo
Fri 02/20/09 05:57 PM

Meg, that's a great point. There is something to be said for great sex with no relationship. I'll have to ponder that.


Well, it is a thought...lol. But, it really hit me hard. After meeting and clicking the way we did, I really thought that there was something there, otherwise never would have let myself get that close. I usually am a good judge of people, but never saw that rug being ripped out from under me. I think I am now just getting up off of the floor...

cuppy59's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:00 PM
How did he tell you Meg?

I got an e-mail that said, after serious consideration, I just cant be involved with a widow....That just tore me to shreds!

Meg8771's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:03 PM
That is the kicker....he didn't. After NUMEROUS phone calls, im's, texts and so forth, nothing. I mean, nada. He just disappeared. That is what hurts the most, not knowing what happened and why. I know he is alive, I passed his car just today when running errands where I worked.

Meg8771's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:04 PM


Signs point to ............












yes. Got dumped, but the sex was PHENOMINAL!! Go figure???


Damn girl....I would have resorted to blackmail, then!!laugh



Well, lucky for him that I don't need a neon sign flashing over my head. I took the hint. I hate confrontation...

cuppy59's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:06 PM

That is the kicker....he didn't. After NUMEROUS phone calls, im's, texts and so forth, nothing. I mean, nada. He just disappeared. That is what hurts the most, not knowing what happened and why. I know he is alive, I passed his car just today when running errands where I worked.


We sometimes lose sight of what is really going on and blinded by wishful thinking. I dont want to stereotype, because its not fair to some of the really honest men out there!

Meg8771's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:07 PM


That is the kicker....he didn't. After NUMEROUS phone calls, im's, texts and so forth, nothing. I mean, nada. He just disappeared. That is what hurts the most, not knowing what happened and why. I know he is alive, I passed his car just today when running errands where I worked.


We sometimes lose sight of what is really going on and blinded by wishful thinking. I dont want to stereotype, because its not fair to some of the really honest men out there!


I agree - I am not going to hold others guily for his sins (so to speak). Besides, I am an eternal optimist. There is someone out there made just for me.

7z3r05's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:08 PM
id call ya. it transcends the sex. its about respect at that point. even if i called u just to say that i dont think we should take this any further. i wouldnt just anonomously disappear.

cuppy59's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:11 PM
So nice of you to say so..........7z3r05....what the heck is your name? Hard to write that screen name...lol

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:14 PM

will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL



I SO hate this double-standard...grumble

I don't make a habit of sleeping on the first, second, third dates and possibly not the 4th or 5th either, but....I'm so far past the 'will ya respect me in the morning thing' If there's chemistry and an undeniable mutual desire, we're adults, not in high school, let's seize the moment.

cuppy59's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:16 PM


will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL



I SO hate this double-standard...grumble

I don't make a habit of sleeping on the first, second, third dates and possibly not the 4th or 5th either, but....I'm so far past the 'will ya respect me in the morning thing' If there's chemistry and an undeniable mutual desire, we're adults, not in high school, let's seize the moment.


God I love your evil mind, Robin....bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

7z3r05's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:16 PM
zero or brian. whichever you prefer. im easy.

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:16 PM
First, second, third, forth, whats it matter,,,The best was YOU GOT SOME,wink...laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Ok,,,lets say the right answer is the sixth date....

Now lets say you then FEEL they SUCK in bed and in their ways...

So now you have invested about two months and its over...

I say JUST JUMP each other SOON and then IF that was GREAT,,start to get even closer,wink...

surprised WELL,,,,it saves time.....slaphead laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:16 PM



will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL



I SO hate this double-standard...grumble

I don't make a habit of sleeping on the first, second, third dates and possibly not the 4th or 5th either, but....I'm so far past the 'will ya respect me in the morning thing' If there's chemistry and an undeniable mutual desire, we're adults, not in high school, let's seize the moment.


God I love your evil mind, Robin....bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile


bigsmile

no photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:21 PM

will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL


What about if you sleep with him on the 25 th date and you find out that he is not damn good ?frustrated frustrated frustrated
Would you feel sorry for all the time you waste it ?laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

mry's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:24 PM


will he keep you or dump you? They always say if you sleep with a man on the first date he wil not call you...so I'm wondering about the second! LOL


What about if you sleep with him on the 25 th date and you find out that he is not damn good ?frustrated frustrated frustrated
Would you feel sorry for all the time you waste it ?laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh


Why is it you always come through in a pinch? laugh

SweetButSpoiled's photo
Fri 02/20/09 06:26 PM

zero or brian. whichever you prefer. im easy.


Easy huh? You sure you want to advertise that on a singles site? rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl