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 Why does someone choose to love somebody that does not love them back?How can someone let go of these feelings and move on?
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Why does someone choose to love somebody that does not love them back?How can someone let go of these feelings and move on?
We do not "choose" who we love, we cannot control our feelings. All we can do is allow our head to rule our heart, and accept that it was never meant to be cos it wasnt mutual. We r all entitled to mutual love. |
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Did Peccy dump you again?
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 What are you saying Mirror
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In short, we want what we can't have. That goes particularly when dealing with dating and emotions (or lack thereof). We hope they change, we hope they "see the light" and open up with themselves, but -in the end- they just don't.
The only way to "move on" is to toughen-up and just move on. Unfortunately, your own feelings will withdraw into your shell, but that's a small price to pay. |
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Why does someone choose to love somebody that does not love them back?How can someone let go of these feelings and move on?
We do not "choose" who we love, we cannot control our feelings. All we can do is allow our head to rule our heart, and accept that it was never meant to be cos it wasnt mutual. We r all entitled to mutual love.  well said
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true unconditional love does not require the person to love you back
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Edited by
MirrorMirror
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Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM
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Did Peccy dump you again? yes And he wuz supposed to be moving here in a couple weeks
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some people want what they don't have moving on takes time and the realisation that we each deserve someone that is as devoted as we are to them
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What are you saying Mirror
 Its over
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In short, we want what we can't have. That goes particularly when dealing with dating and emotions (or lack thereof). We hope they change, we hope they "see the light" and open up with themselves, but -in the end- they just don't. The only way to "move on" is to toughen-up and just move on. Unfortunately, your own feelings will withdraw into your shell, but that's a small price to pay. 
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true unconditional love does not require the person to love you back true
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some people want what they don't have moving on takes time and the realisation that we each deserve someone that is as devoted as we are to them
You're right Tina
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What are you saying Mirror
Its over
Fine then, I'm off to make 50 topics about what to do when someone dumps you 
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What are you saying Mirror
Its over
Fine then, I'm off to make 50 topics about what to do when someone dumps you
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Did Peccy dump you again? yes And he wuz supposed to be moving here in a couple weeks
I am so sorry for you.. 
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Did Peccy dump you again? yes And he wuz supposed to be moving here in a couple weeks
I am so sorry for you..
I will survive. I wuz getting tired of his abusive ways anyways
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chocolate and lots of wine
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My daughter has this problem...a boy likes her and practically stalks her and he won't take no for an answer...he has a baby and another one on the way and is going to Iraq in April. I for one can't wait for him to leave.
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My daughter has this problem...a boy likes her and practically stalks her and he won't take no for an answer...he has a baby and another one on the way and is going to Iraq in April. I for one can't wait for him to leave. Time for Uncle Scott to pay the boy a visit 
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