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Topic: How can someone let go of these feelings?
MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:42 AM
:heart: Why does someone choose to love somebody that does not love them back?:heart:How can someone let go of these feelings and move on?:heart:

Pink_lady's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:45 AM

:heart: Why does someone choose to love somebody that does not love them back?:heart:How can someone let go of these feelings and move on?:heart:


We do not "choose" who we love, we cannot control our feelings.

All we can do is allow our head to rule our heart, and accept that it was never meant to be cos it wasnt mutual. We r all entitled to mutual love.

Urg04es's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:45 AM
Did Peccy dump you again?

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:46 AM
:cry: What are you saying Mirror:cry:

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Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM
In short, we want what we can't have. That goes particularly when dealing with dating and emotions (or lack thereof). We hope they change, we hope they "see the light" and open up with themselves, but -in the end- they just don't.

The only way to "move on" is to toughen-up and just move on. Unfortunately, your own feelings will withdraw into your shell, but that's a small price to pay.

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM


:heart: Why does someone choose to love somebody that does not love them back?:heart:How can someone let go of these feelings and move on?:heart:


We do not "choose" who we love, we cannot control our feelings.

All we can do is allow our head to rule our heart, and accept that it was never meant to be cos it wasnt mutual. We r all entitled to mutual love.
bigsmile well saidflowerforyou

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Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM
true unconditional love does not require the person to love you back

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM

Did Peccy dump you again?
:cry: yes:cry: And he wuz supposed to be moving here in a couple weeks:cry:

misstina2's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:47 AM
flowerforyou some people want what they don't haveflowerforyou moving on takes time and the realisation that we each deserve someone that is as devoted as we are to themflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:48 AM

:cry: What are you saying Mirror:cry:
devil Its overdevil

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:48 AM

In short, we want what we can't have. That goes particularly when dealing with dating and emotions (or lack thereof). We hope they change, we hope they "see the light" and open up with themselves, but -in the end- they just don't.

The only way to "move on" is to toughen-up and just move on. Unfortunately, your own feelings will withdraw into your shell, but that's a small price to pay.
drinks

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:49 AM

true unconditional love does not require the person to love you back
bigsmile truebigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:50 AM

flowerforyou some people want what they don't haveflowerforyou moving on takes time and the realisation that we each deserve someone that is as devoted as we are to themflowerforyou
:heart: You're right Tina:heart:

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:50 AM


:cry: What are you saying Mirror:cry:
devil Its overdevil




Fine then, I'm off to make 50 topics about what to do when someone dumps yourofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 09:52 AM



:cry: What are you saying Mirror:cry:
devil Its overdevil




Fine then, I'm off to make 50 topics about what to do when someone dumps yourofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 02/20/09 09:53 AM


Did Peccy dump you again?
:cry: yes:cry: And he wuz supposed to be moving here in a couple weeks:cry:


I am so sorry for you..
sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/20/09 10:01 AM



Did Peccy dump you again?
:cry: yes:cry: And he wuz supposed to be moving here in a couple weeks:cry:


I am so sorry for you..
sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad
bigsmile I will survive.bigsmile I wuz getting tired of his abusive ways anywaysflowerforyou

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 02/20/09 10:04 AM
chocolate and lots of wine

DragonFlyTat's photo
Fri 02/20/09 10:05 AM
My daughter has this problem...a boy likes her and practically stalks her and he won't take no for an answer...he has a baby and another one on the way and is going to Iraq in April. I for one can't wait for him to leave.

kojack's photo
Fri 02/20/09 10:08 AM

My daughter has this problem...a boy likes her and practically stalks her and he won't take no for an answer...he has a baby and another one on the way and is going to Iraq in April. I for one can't wait for him to leave.


Time for Uncle Scott to pay the boy a visit explode

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