Noy sure if I would call my affection "smothering" I like to give it as well as receive it and if someone thinks that I smother them, they can look elsewhere.

ugh, i just really cant breathe..

LOL

How much attention is the right amount tends to vary with the people involved but you can be pretty sure that however a person is is not going to change a lot. So if it gets on your nerves early it isn't going to change a lot.

My experience is that guys tend to like more tactile attention in the beginning because the see it as bettering the odds that they are going to get laid. Once the new wears off. Or you start hanging around friends and family who might not approve of a lot of PDA's then it can get to be a problem.

One concern for me is the number of women who don't catch on that a guy who is real cozy and wants them constantly where they can be touched is more than likely a control freak and when affection doesn't get it done abuse will.

The other concern is the woman who is overtly tactile. As long as you like it everything is fine. But if you try to cut off the relationship they can apply the same obsessive behavior is stalking you and or trashing your stuff.

I will say there are some couples that just do everything together and are happy as clams. Sometimes one or the other has a job that seperates them for long periods and when they can be together they spend what they can together.

I like a girl 2 b clingy. im not sure if thats bad as smothering

I'm not a smotherer and don't like to be smothered...

Ive never been accused of smothering...........ever............

That's b/c you hid his body really well...

ya but apparantly I analyze...........

eh me too... who cares.. they can't handle it they can find a whiney biotch..

ya apparantly they like *****es that steal from them instead........MUCH BETTER!!!

so true then they cry to us...

I'm not a smotherer in the least. I have no problem giving the person I'm seeing her space. Unfortunately, that often ends up becoming the problem at some point.

btw princess.........Im thinking.............I may take a trip to cali soon............

and this ***** looks good in a surf outfit yanno???

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh your gigantic???? you wanna go surfin with me????

Gyps that is great.. Keep me posted... And I'm sure you do, I've seen your pics.. One hot chica...

ya lets party like its 1979???

and we cant forget romeo..............

oh for sure... you just have to give him time to change his work schedule I'd think...

I'm not much of a surfer. LOL