It says that I have 5 people that want to meet me, but I have not found anyone in any of the folders that are on the home page.
So how do I find out who they are???????????????

They are nestled in the 'rate me' or look for new Mutual Matches feature. Start Mutual Matching and the guys that expressed interest in you will be in the first bunch you see.

I had a message that 2 people were interested in me and it took weeding through the first 8 profiles before theirs came up. You won't know which profile it is unless you click 'yes'. Then, you will see on your homepage a new Mutal Match.

If you muddle through a lot of profiles, and you click 'no' to all the profiles -- and they happen to be the ones interested in you -- then there is no Mutual Match. That indicator message will disappear.

I like the way that is done. It's rather anonymous. You never know who is interested until you 'coincidentally' click 'yes' on Mutual Match.

Melody