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What do you think of snooping on your partner?
Does it start when you do a data search, before you meet for the first time, to find out if they are for real? When does it stop? |
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I've always just asked. They can do the same for me, but if they want they can do the whole nine yards...I don't care.
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Snooping? hmm If you ask all the right questions you shouldn't have to at all. TRUST.. but if your suspicious about erractic or different answers you get. Or maybe the profile doesn't match what they say.. 411.com them Its called protecting yourself.
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Edited by
papersmile
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Mon 02/16/09 04:36 AM
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I wouldn't date someone who I didn't trust enough that I'd have to resort to snooping on them.
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if you think you gotta do something like that,then that person aint for ya,you gotta have trust
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Well, I have a child so I needed to be careful. I'd be straight up about it, though, and just tell them I wanted the information. If they had a problem with it, they'd be out of the running. I don't believe in invading my boyfriend's privacy, I don't look at his cell phone when it rings and he's not there (unless he asks), I don't look over his shoulder when he's chatting with his friends online, etc. I trust him, enough said.
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If you are talking about going to meet someone for the first time that you met online, I think it's probably a good idea. But, if you are talking about once you're in a relationship then I think it's a bad idea. If you're in a relationship with someone and you feel like you need to check up on them, then there is a serious problem somewhere.
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If you are talking about going to meet someone for the first time that you met online, I think it's probably a good idea. But, if you are talking about once you're in a relationship then I think it's a bad idea. If you're in a relationship with someone and you feel like you need to check up on them, then there is a serious problem somewhere. Ditto. |
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I think getting background information about someone you are going to meet from online is smart. However, once you enter into a relationship, if you feel the need to 'snoop' then end the relationship. There needs to be trust, honesty, disclosure, and communication in a relationship. If those are lacking, then you don't have a relationship.
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If you have to do some snooping, then there is a trust issue & that's no good!!
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if they pass the extensive background check then they're
completely vetted! 
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At least Google their name, maybe a reverse ph. number look-up.
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