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Some I have, some they haven't....
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![]() Going with that theory --then you should let your parents go too??? and your kids? and your childhood friends? ![]() |
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends? ![]() |
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Nope, That bridge has been burnt |
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Nope
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It took a very long time (15 years) to get there, but yes. According to him, I went "Medieval" on his a** and it took him that long to recover.
Me - I called it divorce. But, we are friends today. |
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends? |
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends? ![]() ![]() |
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I've done it before and I'm so glad I remaned friends because I didn't know at the time that he wasn't going to live much longer.
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I’ve remained close friends with most of my ex’s.
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1st hell no, 2nd we're ok
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Edited by
moofooga
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Sun 02/15/09 01:38 PM
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None as of yet. If anything, they've become more like acquaintances than nothing else.
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seems the majority of responses indicates friendships can continue after relationship, to those majority - question -- do you consider yourself a stable person, do you consider the person who you continued the friendship with to be a stable person...the reason it is asked is because i don't think a friendship can continue if one of the person is unstable
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Heather says it well.
"The getting there usually takes time. In the absence of abuse, I can usually get there, if it's mutual. However, there are occasions where I think it's best to just wish each other well (or not) and go your separate ways." Once you love someone I think that is always present in some form. How you choose to handle it? Well that's where it gets interesting. I have two ex's. One my best friend...the other...well we are working on it...funny now that we are apart I miss my friend more than I miss my love. |
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I'm still friends with my ex although sometimes its a little awkward...
He's still used to sharing too many details of his life. And I think we're both stable people... That helps. That, plus we both put our kids first and its better for them if we get along. |
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends? It all depends on how inversely perportional the bitterness is. For my now almost ex-wife, impossible. Just 2 nights ago, we had a phone call that lasted 9 minutes and 13 seconds. That was about 4 minutes and 13 seconds too long and a good reminder of why we're getting divorced. On a happy note, she finally signed the divorce papers. |
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I am still friends with my ex buts its really rocky right now and idk how long we will be friends for... i hope forever since he has been my bff since i was 14
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends? ![]() ![]() |
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I have remained friends with all but two of my x's. With the relationships I have had, friendship was always an important aspect of the love and trust between us.
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How many of you have gone to be friends with someone you've had a relationship with when it ends? i am best friends with my ex.....i probably couldnt find a better friend than him! |
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