Topic: For the ladies
freeonthree's photo
Sat 02/14/09 08:48 PM
Edited by freeonthree on Sat 02/14/09 08:48 PM
What opening lines spark you up for a conversation with someone of the opposite sex every time ? Get your pencils out guys !

dawnyhi's photo
Sat 02/14/09 08:49 PM
smile eye contact... EYES and open the door... pull up a chair and say hi

no photo
Sat 02/14/09 08:51 PM
Anything funny and engaging.

I hate open ended stuff.....like him asking me to talk about myself. Either ask a question or tell me something, don't just expect me to dole out my life story.

You can't go wrong IMO by saying something witty that requires a response.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 02/14/09 09:01 PM
As long as the person sounds reasonable intelligent, they don't use ebonics or slang, and can engage me with eye contact, I look more at the secondary body language: are the looking around for Plan B; are they trying to be the center of attention, etc (turn offs).

A warm hello, and honest eye contact will hook me. smitten

Melody :thumbsup:

Poetrywriter's photo
Sat 02/14/09 09:08 PM

As long as the person sounds reasonable intelligent, they don't use ebonics or slang, and can engage me with eye contact, I look more at the secondary body language: are the looking around for Plan B; are they trying to be the center of attention, etc (turn offs).

A warm hello, and honest eye contact will hook me. smitten

Melody :thumbsup:



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