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Topic: just wondering about a guy
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Sun 02/22/09 11:10 PM
It's more difficult to measure the intent of a person that sends a $200 gift in and of itself. If it's sent from a person that makes $200,000/year, then perhaps that person has less interest in you than a person that the same gift and makes $20,000/year.

roco

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Sun 02/22/09 11:11 PM

This guy sent me a teddy bear with godiva chocolates, a dozen roses (half red half pin) with a real crystal vase, and gourmet chocolate dipped strawberries. Theres no chance of him getting lucky because he is overseas fighting in the war.
I have been writing, emailing, sending cards and care packages to him. An I was wondering why he would send me such expensive gifts? He said it was to show his apperciation for all I have done for him. Yet wouldn't the teddy bear be enough. I thought it was got the teddy bear on the 11th, then got the roses with the vase and chocolates the next day an was like OMG!!. So I was wondering why would a guy go to such extremes to show his apperciation? Or am I missing something, is he developing feelings for me and this is his way of telling me. He mentioned in Jan his buddies were asking him if something was going on with us, because of all the mail and packages he gets.
So any advice would be apperciated.
I care for him alot and would not want to risk our friendship to ask him if he was developing feelings for me only to find out he wasn't. So you can see I am in a pickle? So please let me know what you all think. An I checked the prices from the website he ordered from and lets just say he spent almost 200.00 on me.
So guys would you spend that much on a woman just to show her how much you apperciated her?
Ladies what do you think? I need advice



shades Dude is trying to get someshades

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