Do the experiences that happen to us during our childhood affect how we behave as adults?

Yes, dear. It impacts our gender roles, our identity groups and roles, howwe treat abnd perceive men and women, how we parent....

I think so I'm going to be better than what I had to deal with

Yeh, defo.

Social factors, environmental factors, health factors, cultural factors and personality, all play a massive role in determining wat we become in our adulthood.

indeed, until the day the "mind" see to "give up" all it's definitions of "what is good or more good", then just become "itself", each natural reaction then allowed to "free oneself", which FREE ALL AROUND SELF TO BE ITSELF AS WELL???

ideas of what a "good parent should be", who is a "good parent", and what is a "good parent", hide the heart from onself, but to give up the ideas of the mind, allow one to SEE, for the first time, another human being???

the same as to say, A DEFINITION LEAD THE MIND TO EMPTY VANITY OF SELF, but NO DEFINITION, lead the heart to wonderment and amazement of ALL IT SEE???

the same as to say, CAN ONE LOVE LESS IT CARE NOT WHETHER IT BE A FOOL???

one that seek to be the good parent, cut off it's own wisdom from itself, not allowing itself to human, so accept not all other things as they are, and only try to CHNAGE ALL THINGS TO THINK AND BE AS ITSELF???

why would one want another to be as self, UNLESS SELF IS CLOUDED THINKING ITSELF IS MO' BETTER, LOL......

I try, I really do..but you leave me with scrunched up eyebrows. Maybe a condensed version without the third person stuff? Or is it even third person? Arghhhh, I'm so confused!

I just try to redo the good times and not redo the bad. Even the bad experiences shape us, hopefully into better people.

Here! Here!

Very interesting

lol.....

ok, then to you, stop trying to NOT REDO THE BAD???

"the bad hopefully shape us into better people"???

well, it has the POWER TO DO SO, when we can see it as the MOST GOOD, NOT THE "GOOD" AS MOST GOOD???

you have not said the magic words that lead SELF INTO SEEING HOW "BAD" TELL US WHAT IS MOST GOOD TO KNOW???

ok, if one fall off a bike, then, TRY TO "MAKE ITSELF" "NOT" FALL OFF THE BIKE AGAIN, WILL IT FALL OFF MORE OR LESS???

the brain will REPEAT HISTORY, if it "STARE AT" OR FOCUS ON TRYING TO STAY ON THE BIKE, "OR", IF IT STARE AT TRYING TO NOT FALL OFF THE BIKE???

the same as seeing one experience BETTER THAN ANOTHER THING WILL NOT ALLOW ONE TO SEE WHAT IS HIDDEN WITHIN THE EXPERIENCE???

why???

ok, say the MIND THINK OF "RED" as it's favorite color, then ALL OTHER THINGS AS COLORS BECOME AS LESS TO SELF???

so the same applies to THE EXPERIENCE OF LIFE???

hey, these are just principles of the operating system of the brain from one ignorant cent, and mean nothing unless they are deemd to by any hearer???

why try to understand me???

the conscious mind is SEEING TRILLIONS OF BITS OF DATA, and what it actually assimilate "into meaning", it JUST WHAT IT NEED???

one could say, HEY, JUST BE YOURSELF???

but seeing the inert way of the mind, that KEEP SELF FROM BEING IT'S TRUE SELF, IS LIKE SEEING WHAT THE OBSTACLE BE IN THE ROADWAY???

just ideas....

hey, and stress not thy brain to see, as then seeing is actaully reduced???