Topic: HOW MANY MEN GO TO CHURCH? | |
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These days?
Any form of religion , how many attend a weekly, sermon? |
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I do on Sunday.
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I DON'T GO, THE BUILDING WOULD CAVE IN IF I DID. NOT THAT I DON'T
BELIEVE IN A POWER GREATER THAN ME, BUT I DON'T WANT TO BE PULLED OUT FROM UNDER THE RUBBLE. |
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I don’t seek moral values from a religion so I would be very much
against listening to sermons about moral values. My mother used to be a Christian (protestant) and I used to take her to church in her old age and sit through sermons just for her sake. Unfortunately she liked to attend the old-time-religion type of churches so they were often preaching fire and brimstone more than peace and love. Having nothing else to do I actually listened to the boring sermons and all I can say is that I wouldn’t even dream of doing all the things they were preaching not to do anyway. So to me it was like they were preaching to the choir. When my mother finally became so feeble that she didn’t want to attend anymore I was not about to ague with her. I have no clue why she liked to sit through those lectures, she too would never to anything wrong, so what was the point to it? I don’t need someone to preach morals to me and I don’t look to religion for that. The only way that I would go to a ‘church’ is if the purpose was to praise ‘god’, and rejoice in the love and peace of humanity. However, even then I would prefer that the church doesn’t attempt to define ‘god’ per dogmatic sermons based on ancient doctrines. In stead I would just rather celebrate god’s creation which would include the entire universe and everything in it, not just human beings. If I could find a ‘church’ like that I might be inclined to attend it. My sister actually did find a church that was somewhat like that. They celebrated humanity rather than preaching any particular doctrines. They didn’t even have an individual designated leader or ‘preacher’. Although they did have volunteers who would offer to help ‘coordinate’ the services, and some of the volunteers were regular volunteers and did well at coordinating things so they may have appeared to be the people in charge to outside observers. The congregation would pick topics or offer ideas for ‘sermons’ although they didn’t call them sermons. Then individual members would offer to speak on their own personal experiences. So much of the ‘sermons’ were actually people getting up and delivering their own thoughts, sometimes these would be personal anecdotes, sometimes they would be poems recited, in some cases musically talented people would play or sing a piece of music that they personally found inspirational. It was more of a celebration of ‘god’ or ‘life’ (atheists were very welcome to attend their ‘church’). Most atheists do have an appreciation and awe of life, and so this was accepted as also having an awe of god’s creation. No one ever argued for any particular way to look at god. No morals were taught dogmatically, however some of the personal testimonies were contained powerful insightful moral lessons. People would ‘confess’ mistakes that they have made, not as an attempt to be forgiven, but rather motivated purely by a desire of remorse. Of course the congregation always offered their compassion, love and understanding. Unfortunately, the church changed over time. Some new member who were somewhat belligerent began demanding more structure and that ‘their’ religions ideas should accepted. The meek congregation innocently accepted that all ideas should be heard, and the ‘sermons’ began to become more dogmatic in flavor attempting to ‘preach’ traditional idea, rather than sharing individual experiences. After a while my sister gave up and just quit attending her church. Anyway, that’s my thoughts. Rather than attending a socially organized religious event I would prefer to just practice some tradition of my own. Like maybe once a week talk a walk on a natural trail for the express purpose of smelling the roses. Although, I do that all the time anyway, so I don’t really see the point in practicing it on any particular schedule. |
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I attend 'church' every day.
my church is that which is and therefore is present in every breath I take. Every step I take. Therefore I walk in my 'church' at any given moment. Welcome brothers and sisters to the church of the human. Organized church... Ha. I confess my sins to no human. There is no individual between me and god. Sermons spoken from the book are usually bitter. (why is that). Most of them keep their doors locked when church is not in 'session'. (I allways though god never slept) Most of them expect money. There is no reason to give money to a church. (what does GOD need money for he is god). |
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ABRA, AFTER READING WHAT YOU WROTE, I THINK YOU SHOULD BE A
PREACHER. |
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I agree with adventure. I live in a state park, see all of GOD's
creation, all the time. Hear rabbits caught at nite, circle of life. What better church could there be. Believe in GOD, O YES. Line from Croccidial Dundee, "Me & God, we're mates." ( sorry for the spelling) |
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Church has an aspect that I don't see anybody else mentioning here, that
being ceremony. When people get together to profess their faith and hear a common message, it reinforces their personal faith in mankind and others, as having dedication to something bigger than themselves. So don't go if you don't want to. It certainly is a simple matter to find ideas and expressions in a sermon that you might disagree with, particularly in this age when preachers sometimes mix a little politics into their sermons. but remember that sometimes there is more than just following rules that gets people to church. Sometimes it is fellowship. But keep in mind its not always the perfection of the preacher that people are looking for when they attend church. I don't attend weekly. |
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when I was a kid we had a local bar called The Stone Church...my
stepfather lived there... yeah..the joke.."Oh he's at church" haha |
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As an atheist, I don't go to church.
As a non-drinker, I don't go to bars. The parallels between the two are something to think about -- |
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I'm with you on that one Lex. I don't go in bars or churches.
My aunt goes to churches just to hear the choirs sing. She actually goes around searching for the churches with the best choirs. The whole idea of church is more of a social event for her. |
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Philospher>
If you are secure in you faith then cermony means nothing. God is where ever you are and in all places you ain't. therefore he will allways be with you. People tend to expect you to follow their rules. (Have you ever noticed the leaders in a church are the ones that are the richer in worldly things) |
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i attend church daily
church is not in a buildin its where ya are i take time n pray daily n study yea i go fellowship with others every weekend but as a buildin is concerned im in it the biggest man i ever new was my dad he stood only 6' 5" but was big when he was on his kness prayin yall party on.. |
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