Topic: Maybe it's just me, but...
Peccy's photo
Mon 02/09/09 03:40 AM
when someone posts that they're, "Looking for their one and only, Looking for the one, or Looking for their other half" is that not indicating that they are looking for a bit more than the Activity Partner or the Dating that they have posted?

It really doesn't make a difference to me because I have a gf, but isn't that like a bait and switch?

agbbieannie's photo
Mon 02/09/09 03:44 AM
I would think they wanted a mate. I think of activity partner as a buddy. NOt dating.

bgeorge's photo
Mon 02/09/09 03:54 AM
since i view male profiles it screams desperately clingy and will be up my azz 24/7...not attractive traits in a man...maybe men have a different take on this than i do...

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 02/09/09 04:00 AM
Well you have to start somewhere but it is nice to know the goal. It does seem like some profiles contradict themselves.

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 02/09/09 04:05 AM
Maybe they are looking to settle down, but have a busy schedule and don't have the time needed to be in a committed relationship just yet. So they are leaving their options open to just having someone to hang out with for the time being.

Who knows anymore.

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 02/09/09 04:51 AM
I don't think our profiles offer enough options. I would just LOVE to have the option to post,

"Not looking for a damn thing."

MsCarmen's photo
Mon 02/09/09 04:58 AM

I don't think our profiles offer enough options. I would just LOVE to have the option to post,

"Not looking for a damn thing."

laugh Wouldn't we all!

Mr_Music's photo
Mon 02/09/09 06:03 AM


I don't think our profiles offer enough options. I would just LOVE to have the option to post,

"Not looking for a damn thing."

laugh Wouldn't we all!

That would basically be for the people who apparently cannot see any other function to this site besides "dating".

usernamefayou's photo
Mon 02/09/09 06:06 AM
Yes, it is clearly a "bait and switch".

RKISIT's photo
Mon 02/09/09 06:08 AM
first of all "looking for an activity partner" shouldn't even be a choice.i mean come on you actually gonna want a woman to rock climb with or mountain bike with,maybe even play chinese checkers with and thats it.

Seakolony's photo
Mon 02/09/09 06:13 AM
Yes I would think that they were looking for commitment
Activity Partner, yes, I am sure they are looking for a bit more.....but maybe they will find a girl better at rock climbing or snow boarding than they are. I personally know quite a few really good female paintball players, surfers, snow boarder's, skiiers, and boxers.
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