Topic: Don't you get it yet?
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Sun 02/08/09 07:57 PM

i'll often lie to keep things level...
there's many times where simply skirting the truth is in the best interest for everyone involved.

rant: women have a reputation for spontaneously changing their minds on issues big and small. while this isn't technically lying - it does come off as "bat sh!t crazy" (pardon my french). and can be just as consequential as a man that lies

ok - i'm done venting - thanks! :wink:


So, how does lying keep things level?

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Sun 02/08/09 07:58 PM

Girls talk to each other. If you hand one girl a line of bullsh*t, another gal will hear about it! rofl


uhoh, someone got caught yet again????!!!!slaphead frustrated :thumbsup:

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Sun 02/08/09 07:59 PM
Hahaha

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Sun 02/08/09 08:01 PM

awh! Andy don't hide! You princess in shining armor won't find you, if you hide in the cave! :wink:


I was kidding!
As far as woman in shining armor goes...

It doesn't have to be shiny...

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Sun 02/08/09 08:01 PM
Edited by heathersaysgobucks on Sun 02/08/09 08:03 PM

Hahaha


Wow.........where were you when I was in middle school? I bet you have little girls fawning all over you. (as little girls will do with a handsome teacher)


Tanya...good topic! Lying is a no-no...:)

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Mon 02/09/09 01:07 AM

Girls talk to each other. If you hand one girl a line of bullsh*t, another gal will hear about it! rofl

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Mon 02/09/09 01:09 AM

Girls talk to each other. If you hand one girl a line of bullsh*t, another gal will hear about it! rofl


that's called gossip.

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Mon 02/09/09 01:12 AM

I keep hoping some girl will say something nice about me to another girl -- that's really the only hope I have left!





they don't do that because they try to keep the good ones to themselves. then when they're done with you for whatever reason, they'll tell all their friends how bad you were in bed.

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Mon 02/09/09 01:15 AM


Hahaha


Wow.........where were you when I was in middle school? I bet you have little girls fawning all over you. (as little girls will do with a handsome teacher)


Tanya...good topic! Lying is a no-no...:)


Well this goes both ways... decided to finally meet some "people" from this site over the last 2 weeks. I can sum of the 3 meetings like this.. me driving by and going "oh god no.. please don't be her.. please don't be her".

Yeah it was her. I'm not going to hate but if you are 5'2" both ways.. let's be honest about it. Will save us a lot of time in the end.

Because i'm who i am.. i did keep the date with these people, then lost their numbers in a "freak" cell phone accident. Meh.

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Mon 02/09/09 01:17 AM



Hahaha


Wow.........where were you when I was in middle school? I bet you have little girls fawning all over you. (as little girls will do with a handsome teacher)


Tanya...good topic! Lying is a no-no...:)


Well this goes both ways... decided to finally meet some "people" from this site over the last 2 weeks. I can sum of the 3 meetings like this.. me driving by and going "oh god no.. please don't be her.. please don't be her".

Yeah it was her. I'm not going to hate but if you are 5'2" both ways.. let's be honest about it. Will save us a lot of time in the end.

Because i'm who i am.. i did keep the date with these people, then lost their numbers in a "freak" cell phone accident. Meh.
noway

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Mon 02/09/09 01:19 AM
btw......talk is cheap, and you have to know who talks and who is really telling the truth.

As for women and men.......everyone "networks".....I know more stuff than I want to know most of the time.......gaaaaaaaaaaawd!!!noway

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Mon 02/09/09 01:20 AM
<----insert fork in my head.......and not one of those lil cocktail forks either!!!noway laugh noway

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Mon 02/09/09 01:29 AM

btw......talk is cheap, and you have to know who talks and who is really telling the truth.

As for women and men.......everyone "networks".....I know more stuff than I want to know most of the time.......gaaaaaaaaaaawd!!!noway


I'm finding "talk" on the internet to be the cheapest of all. Perhaps i'm just a little bitter given my recent outings.

Btw nice to see you again Gypsy, still working to 100,000k i see!

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Mon 02/09/09 01:31 AM

I'm finding "talk" on the internet to be the cheapest of all. Perhaps i'm just a little bitter given my recent outings.

How did you get outed?

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Mon 02/09/09 01:35 AM


btw......talk is cheap, and you have to know who talks and who is really telling the truth.

As for women and men.......everyone "networks".....I know more stuff than I want to know most of the time.......gaaaaaaaaaaawd!!!noway


I'm finding "talk" on the internet to be the cheapest of all. Perhaps i'm just a little bitter given my recent outings.

Btw nice to see you again Gypsy, still working to 100,000k i see!
omg I just cant shutttttttttttap!!!noway Actually in real life......I dont talk alot.......this is my brain on overdrive!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 02/09/09 01:37 AM
Edited by JoeW99 on Mon 02/09/09 01:38 AM
outed?

No the term "outings" refers to my "recent" meetings of females from this site. Seems some people have a hard time being honest when it comes to telling you what they are like.

Well least three i meet from this site over the past 2 weeks did... If you tell me you weigh 135lbs, i'm not going to believe you put on the other 100lbs overnight. Guess this is me learning about honesty and the internet...

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Mon 02/09/09 01:44 AM

outed?

No the term "outings" refers to my "recent" meetings of females from this site. Seems some people have a hard time being honest when it comes to telling you what they are like.

Well least three i meet from this site over the past 2 weeks did... If you tell me you weigh 135lbs, i'm not going to believe you put on the other 100lbs overnight. Guess this is me learning about honesty and the internet...
Ive heard this happen to alot of people.......I cant imagine people people being so dishonest not only to you but themselves!!!noway

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Mon 02/09/09 04:41 AM
Hello?

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Mon 02/09/09 04:45 AM



Hahaha


Wow.........where were you when I was in middle school? I bet you have little girls fawning all over you. (as little girls will do with a handsome teacher)


Tanya...good topic! Lying is a no-no...:)


Well this goes both ways... decided to finally meet some "people" from this site over the last 2 weeks. I can sum of the 3 meetings like this.. me driving by and going "oh god no.. please don't be her.. please don't be her".

Yeah it was her. I'm not going to hate but if you are 5'2" both ways.. let's be honest about it. Will save us a lot of time in the end.

Because i'm who i am.. i did keep the date with these people, then lost their numbers in a "freak" cell phone accident. Meh.


Good for you meeting people. As far as it relates to this thread, "Did you tell any of the guys here privately who it was ?"

I have had a couple women tell me that I was a topic of ph. conversations off line.


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Mon 02/09/09 04:21 PM



Hahaha


Wow.........where were you when I was in middle school? I bet you have little girls fawning all over you. (as little girls will do with a handsome teacher)


Tanya...good topic! Lying is a no-no...:)


Well this goes both ways... decided to finally meet some "people" from this site over the last 2 weeks. I can sum of the 3 meetings like this.. me driving by and going "oh god no.. please don't be her.. please don't be her".

Yeah it was her. I'm not going to hate but if you are 5'2" both ways.. let's be honest about it. Will save us a lot of time in the end.

Because i'm who i am.. i did keep the date with these people, then lost their numbers in a "freak" cell phone accident. Meh.


Absolutely goes both ways. I pick the "heavyset" category on here because that's the closest to me. If they had a "god girl, lose some weight!" choice, I'd pick it. I'm always completely upfront about weight issues.....it's dishonest not to be and you are correct, it's wasting people's time. I have met people (men) from this site that picked the wrong answer.....so I guess both genders do this. I think women might be a bit more forgiving on the weight issue, but I could be wrong there too.
Above all of this......friends talk (gossip, whatever you want to call it), it's always been that way, and always will. I do not think it's right to be sharing people's personal stuff to each other though, beyond maybe having good intent to warn your friend when your bullsh*t meter is going into the red. I feel bad for men on here who get bamboozled by women and waste their money on dates that were based on lies. That ain't right!