I checked my mutual matches today just for the heck of it. Call me anal, I like to keep even that area clean and organized. Today there were 2.

Someone who lives thousands of miles away and seemed "creepy".
and
A couple looking for a third person to complete their fantasy.

If you HAD to pick one.....which one would you choose and why?

The "creepy" guy, he's too far away to do any damage. If you pick the couple, well you're pretty much locked in, no?

Distance does seem to be a plus in this instance. Is that who you would pick if you had to make a choice?

for sure, if I HAD to pick one, a married couple looking for a third freaks me out more then a creepy guy does any day of the week. I mean I ride a bicycle not a tri, u know what I'm sayin

Oh, the chick was hot too!......just saying in case that might sway someone's opinion...haha.

And guys, just put a creepy woman in place of the creepy man.

thats why there is a "no" button.. use it with all due diligence...


Oh to clarify my choice if I "had" to pick one...unplug the computer for a month. I don't feel under any circumstances I "have" to pick one and btw I have more then my share of creepy women in my life..

Well of course I used the no button silly. Sometimes it's just interesting to see what choice a person makes when you actually have to make one. The lesser of two evils in their own mind, get it? But yes, by all means refuse to play, it's your right.

Are either of them paying me at all?

Lately I always click yes, then delete them.
They don't reply to email, and they live very far away, some are in their 20's. WTF????
I have one now and she deactivated before I could contact her, they only reason I didn't delete her in the first place is she actually lives near by.

How can you possibly figure out that much from "I don't know what to write here"....?

Hi

I'd pick the couple only because you know what their expectations are up front. If you felt the guy was creepy then his intentions are probably hidden.

I use this example too:

If I went into a bar and I saw the devil at one stool and a priest at another -- who would I sit by?

I'd pick the devil! I know he is a son of a b*tch and I can't trust him. My guard is up because he wears his evil like an ugly tie.

The priest, however, is a wolf in sheep's clothing. He has skeletons, pervertions, and probably a BDSM basement (not always a bad thing) where no one can hear you scream!

DISCLAIMER: I used a priest at an attempt at bad humor. I, in no way, consider all priests to be the type of person portrayed in my example.

Melody

I dunno..but I'm sure someone would!!



Well the couple lives near me...maybe I should have clicked yes.....might be the only action I'm getting in the near future...

It's all in the vibes oh wise one...

Well aren't you just cute as a button! Great analogy too. Welcome to Mingle...I hope you find what you are looking for.

I'll complete their fantasy, if they are both blindfolded and tied down when I arrive.

Oh.

That wasn't their fantasy?

I mean no disrespect Heather and maybe it's because I am missing something, but a person does not know who the mutual matches are unless both parties click on yes. You may get an email saying that someone has clicked yes on you, but you won't know who it is unless you also click yes on them. Am I wrong?

Thank you! This is a fun site. I had no idea when I registered that a co-ed community existed in unison with matching!

Melody

I'm really new, so I have a larger margin of error in using the site but I've received Mutual Matches from profiles I didn't 'match' or sometimes even view.

Melody

Creepy guy. Otherwise it's two against one. And, creepy guys aren't usually very strong. A can of pepper spray should do the trick.

If I had to pick one, I'd pick my nose!!!