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Topic: friends
misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 02/04/09 07:37 PM
What if someone you like keeps refering to you as a friend would you keep the friendship going or cut your losses?

23mBoredinKilleen Joined Fri 01/09/09 Posts: 377	Wed 02/04/09 07:38 PM
Or maybe you should keep them as a friend.. Just my 2 cents. Or make a move on them first and see how it plays out.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 02/04/09 07:40 PM
Little of both, MissTina2. I would maintain friendship.,But would also cut my losses.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 02/04/09 07:41 PM
If I liked them as a person I would keep them as a friend... I don't let myself go in too deeply so the switch wouldn't be hard...

rlynne Joined Sun 11/23/08 Posts: 2458	Wed 02/04/09 07:42 PM
If I liked them as a person I would keep them as a friend... I don't let myself go in too deeply so the switch wouldn't be hard... I agree with the aforementioned however, certain circumstances may alter my choices

GuardianAngelMan Joined Tue 08/14/07 Posts: 787	Wed 02/04/09 07:43 PM
What if someone you like keeps refering to you as a friend would you keep the friendship going or cut your losses? Friends are special treasures of the heart. They make u feel loved, needed & secured. It's often not said but felt

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Wed 02/04/09 07:44 PM
Stay friends........just a shot in the dark, but it makes sense.....lol

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Wed 02/04/09 07:47 PM
Depends on what you did as freinds I suppose.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 02/04/09 07:48 PM
should you cut back on flirting?

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Wed 02/04/09 07:52 PM
I'd say yeah, cut back on flirting. If they keep referring to you as a 'friend' I'd say they were trying to tell you something without totally hurting your feelings.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 02/04/09 07:52 PM
sometimes you just have to say something....if they are single of course,its a gamble but hey at least ya tried.

23mBoredinKilleen Joined Fri 01/09/09 Posts: 377	Wed 02/04/09 07:53 PM Edited by 23mBoredinKilleen on Wed 02/04/09 07:54 PM
should you cut back on flirting? No.. maybe you should make the first move. Maybe they are shy. I'm shy myself even though to a lot of people it doesn't seem that way when I meet them in person. However if I like someone, the shyness takes over and I have a hard time making any type of move or saying anything. It happens. Take a chance and ask him for more, if he says he just wants to be friends then just be friends.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Wed 02/04/09 07:54 PM
What if someone you like keeps refering to you as a friend would you keep the friendship going or cut your losses? It depends on what you want. It kinda sucks when you want someone more just to be a friend and the other refuses to go closer. Anyway I would say more friends never hurt, but if it bothers you, because you wanted more than just a friendship then just move on.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Wed 02/04/09 07:56 PM
Some of my best friends are women that I had a 'thing' for that didn't want more. And I even have a great friend that wanted more and I didn't. No need to give that up. Just move on.

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Wed 02/04/09 07:56 PM
They must be destroyed.

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Wed 02/04/09 07:56 PM
I'm thinking keep as friends

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 02/04/09 07:57 PM
They must be destroyed.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Wed 02/04/09 07:57 PM
They must be destroyed. ..... wait on it..... wait on it....

23mBoredinKilleen Joined Fri 01/09/09 Posts: 377	Wed 02/04/09 07:57 PM
They must be destroyed. Damn.. You must have gotten stuck in that "friend zone" before.

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Wed 02/04/09 07:58 PM
He has no idea what he's missing