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Topic: Im lost...
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Tue 02/03/09 12:05 PM
Yea i open doors 4 any woman. most of them look suprised an shocked. n my town i guess those old fashion ways have died out. its sad

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Tue 02/03/09 12:06 PM

Yea i open doors 4 any woman. most of them look suprised an shocked. n my town i guess those old fashion ways have died out. its sad


It's the pat on the backside as they walk in that really gets me noticed. happy

Winx's photo
Tue 02/03/09 12:51 PM

Yea i open doors 4 any woman. most of them look suprised an shocked. n my town i guess those old fashion ways have died out. its sad


In my area it's a way of life. Most men open the doors.
It's appreciated. They do it for children too.

Keep up the good work.:smile: flowerforyou

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Tue 02/03/09 01:06 PM

I have this guy friend who I really like...when we hang out he opens the car door for me every single time and he pays for EVERYTHING...he will NOT let me pay ever...is he being friendly? or does he want to become more then friends? the reason im so confused is because when we do "hang out" he comes off as very distant...he doesnt talk much and it makes the situation awkward...is he shy? Guys, would u pay for everything for a girl who was just a friend to you?


I think he may be a shy guy; he sounds like he's trying to express interest. Ironically, he may wonder if it's reciprocated. Being a shy person myself, I've probably done something along these lines several times. I realize it's not the most romantic idea for a woman to make the first move, but if you really dig the fellow, I wouldn't let details stop me from finding out. Good luck :)

Adamal29's photo
Tue 02/03/09 06:53 PM
Yea he digs you, or maybe he is gay?

Winx's photo
Tue 02/03/09 06:55 PM

Yea he digs you, or maybe he is gay?


What makes him seem gay?

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Tue 02/03/09 07:02 PM

He pays for everything and is distant when you hang out. How long have you known this guy?

Paying for everything is an attempt to impress you with his financial stability.

He seems distant because he's restraining himself from telling you how he really feels. He's afraid you'll either be freaked out or won't feel the same way.

If you really like this guy, give him a break-- come out and tell him that you like him and ask how he feels about you; he'll warm up real quick.

If you're not sure how you feel about him, get him to tell you about himself. Guys feel better when a beautiful woman shows interest in who they are.

Let me know if I was right, hm? I'm curious! :smile:



That may be true for some guys, but not me! I pay for everything and I do not do it to impress the woman. That's just how I was raised.

Your distant thing is wrongo also! I used to be a little distant with women, but it certainly was not because I was restraining myself from telling the woman how I felt about her. I was just a little shy!

The other points you made I do agree with though.

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Tue 02/03/09 07:35 PM
First of all, I have to say this: You have the most beautiful eyes I have EVER seen. (I am straight, but WOW I love your eyes!!!)

Ok, now to your question, simple. He likes you. He is a shy person and does not know how to tell u. Actions speak louder than words, and his actions are clearly indicating his interest in you. If you like him too, tell him!!!:P

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Tue 02/03/09 10:51 PM
Lol jus next time when he opens the car door smooch him on the cheek!

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Tue 02/03/09 10:55 PM

I have this guy friend who I really like...when we hang out he opens the car door for me every single time and he pays for EVERYTHING...he will NOT let me pay ever...is he being friendly? or does he want to become more then friends? the reason im so confused is because when we do "hang out" he comes off as very distant...he doesnt talk much and it makes the situation awkward...is he shy? Guys, would u pay for everything for a girl who was just a friend to you?


Absolutely, it shows a level of "caring" coming from a guy. I even do this kind of stuff with the wives of my friends, totally platonic, just a gentleman thing.

buttons's photo
Tue 02/03/09 10:59 PM
yep not only does he like you .... he respects you!

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Wed 02/04/09 01:31 AM
beware of the zombie peoples!!!surprised scared

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Wed 02/04/09 01:44 AM
Thank you everyone for your advice...I went about asking him and it turns out he does not feel the same way... =( at least I know now... as much as it hurts...again thank you everyone

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Wed 02/04/09 01:55 AM
sorry to hear about that. but it sounded like something wasn't right...or it would never have been awkward.

it is best to know for sure - then you may eventually be friends - and you can move on to find someone who is truly a good fit for you...

flowerforyou

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Wed 02/04/09 02:12 AM
sorry to hear about that

it's a shame really. but at least you can move on to finding someone who does have feelings for you.

you're a beautiful girl. and from what you've said in your profile, you seem very intelligent and you seem to have your head on straight.

i would say it's his loss.

there'll be others.

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Wed 02/04/09 02:17 AM
I agree drew. this guy clearly doesnt know a very good thing such as her when its rite there n front of him. makes me want 2 smash his icecream cone rite n his facegrumble

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Wed 02/04/09 08:45 AM
awwww thanks guys. that means a lot to me. thanks for cheering me up. =)

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