At what time of each day do you THINK about being alone.
Feeling there is no one to even phone.
Looking in your mirror and saying,wow,,I see WHY!
And then drift off into day dreams of a bad cry.
Could any of you PLEASE,





Isn't life just one big roller coaster of excitement while YOUR having such a great ride.

When do I feel lonely?

Most of the time because I still remember how it felt to not feel loney because I felt one with my mate even if we were not physically together.

I suppose there are times when it is worse.

A big one surpriseingly is when I see something interesting, or pleaseing, or stimulateing in a positive way. I want to share it. Reflect it back and forth between us.

Probably the next would be the things that my partner was good at that I now must do still overwhelming me at times.

The last but not necessarily the least is the intimacy that I have with a mate that I don't have with others. The touching and expressing sexuality and love. A person who knows not just the present but also the past and some of what is expected in the future.

The time of day for each of those is different but if I had to list one is when I have to go to bed alone and wake up alone.

I don't feel lonely, of course I could do with some social interactions...but I'm not the most social type of person in the first place. I'm just fine at this point in my life, I have people I converse with online so I'm not really lonely.

Not having someone to wish 'Good night' is something I miss more than I would have thought.

I think it represents missing a 'family' life. Saying 'good night' was an important nightly ritual in my life when I was married and especially while we lived with my mother until her death.

Yes, bedtime seems to be the only time I regularly feel my 'alone-ness'...and I'm not convinced it is because my bed is empty. It is that the house is empty, but for me and my pets.

I would also agree with this..

never.

I never feel alone... nor lonely...

I don't suffer with abandonment or scarcity issues...

There really is no specific time of day when it hits me -- it's more sporadic, more of a random occurrence.

And then -- then I remember what it was like, being married --how I hated those last months, how I felt more alone with her than I had ever felt alone by myself -- and I see that there's a compromise underneath it all -- I can give up a dream in order to avoid a nightmare....

At feelinglikecraptime O'clock

Everyone exsperiances Lonliness at one point in their life, some more Than others. Saying you never get lonely is a Crock of .... IMHO

To me...Things are not as good, as they have been,
And not as bad, as they have been, so, i'm somewhere in the middle, kinda like Lex stated..can do without the nightmares....

Happens on occasion but there is no specific time. I tend to come out of it quickly, realizing I have good friends.

Miss T,,,GOD I LOVE YOUR HONESTY!!!
A toast to being REAL,,me Lady...

True this Mr. Lex... Great reply...
It is better to live forever alone than to have another who you wish wasn't with you, or they wished they were not with you!!!

It's not so much when as...what you are doing at the time that it hits you. It is never anything I wallow in, WHY?? Just that fleeting "cringe" of .....if only there was someone next to me to revel in the moment along with me.

That is when I call my best friend, sister, someone I haven't seen or talked to in a while and recount it for them.

To witness the lonely moment is a chance to bear it to another.

Usually I am pretty busy, working and being a mom. But some nights when I am falling asleep I miss having someone to hold me. And weirdly enough, when I take my sons to the movies... miss having someone to eat popcorn with in the dark. There are other times, but those two are what come to mind at the moment.

Tonight I feel kinda lonely..

When I am leaving work knowing the Apt. is going to be empty when I get there.

When grocery shopping for one.

I feel lonely every night when I go to bed and there isn't a woman there that I can wrap my arms around to make her feel safe and warm.

It feels like my nights are wasted being alone.

when I'm making dinner and I know nobody else is going to walk through that door after they get off work

and when I go to bed.