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Topic: Back together
Roco's photo
Fri 01/30/09 04:07 PM
..there is a way to win her over..but its not without risks..tell her that you got a friend that would be a good match for her..push him..and push for a date with him...make sure though that he lacks the qualities she is seeking so that she's doesn't choose him (someone not as cool as you in other words) ..therein lies the risk, she may choose him...if she doesn't like the guy..chances are..she's going to like you more for being selfless, considerate..and for many other reason's i can't fathom..it worked for me 3/3...extremely effective...

roco

p.s. -- this is high stakes stuff..don't do this if you don't want to risk losing her..

Adamal29's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:41 PM

..there is a way to win her over..but its not without risks..tell her that you got a friend that would be a good match for her..push him..and push for a date with him...make sure though that he lacks the qualities she is seeking so that she's doesn't choose him (someone not as cool as you in other words) ..therein lies the risk, she may choose him...if she doesn't like the guy..chances are..she's going to like you more for being selfless, considerate..and for many other reason's i can't fathom..it worked for me 3/3...extremely effective...

roco

p.s. -- this is high stakes stuff..don't do this if you don't want to risk losing her..


oooooo that's a tuffy. The friends I know, man I don't know lol

Winx's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:42 PM

..there is a way to win her over..but its not without risks..tell her that you got a friend that would be a good match for her..push him..and push for a date with him...make sure though that he lacks the qualities she is seeking so that she's doesn't choose him (someone not as cool as you in other words) ..therein lies the risk, she may choose him...if she doesn't like the guy..chances are..she's going to like you more for being selfless, considerate..and for many other reason's i can't fathom..it worked for me 3/3...extremely effective...

roco

p.s. -- this is high stakes stuff..don't do this if you don't want to risk losing her..


That's playing games, Roco!

Adamal29's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:46 PM


I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol


You shouldnt have to wonder how to keep anything up...being in a relationship is loving/liking one another not to put up this charade. You need to ask yourself some questions about what you really want before you end up hurting this girl. You said she has self esteem problems, well when you break her heart it might be over with for her. Think deeply my friend, you kind of sound like an ass in my opinion.


You missunderstood, if you think I am an ass. She broke my heart, by saying this wasn't working. I am just now trying to play it cool with her and not move as fast as we did in the begining. When I look back on it, I made some crucial mistakes (like buying her a whole bunch of stuff withing the first three weeks) Now I am just trying to show her my less intense side, and hopefully save that for down the road. I just got too caught up in it too quickly.

whatssuup's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:48 PM

The only way it could be like in was would mean you need to travel back in time. With every day a relationship evolves and changes

MsCarmen's photo
Fri 01/30/09 06:50 PM



I just wonder how long I gotta keep this up lol


You shouldnt have to wonder how to keep anything up...being in a relationship is loving/liking one another not to put up this charade. You need to ask yourself some questions about what you really want before you end up hurting this girl. You said she has self esteem problems, well when you break her heart it might be over with for her. Think deeply my friend, you kind of sound like an ass in my opinion.


You missunderstood, if you think I am an ass. She broke my heart, by saying this wasn't working. I am just now trying to play it cool with her and not move as fast as we did in the begining. When I look back on it, I made some crucial mistakes (like buying her a whole bunch of stuff withing the first three weeks) Now I am just trying to show her my less intense side, and hopefully save that for down the road. I just got too caught up in it too quickly.


Personally, I think it's kind of cool that you are willing to try and work things out. Relationships are hard as hell to keep up and take a great deal of effort. If it works out for you, that's great. And if not, (and I'm really hoping it does for you), then at least you know you did try and won't have any regrets.

Good luck to you! flowerforyou

May777's photo
Sat 01/31/09 06:00 AM
sounds like a fatal attraction,.. to me,.. brokenheart :cry:







Adamal29's photo
Sun 02/01/09 04:52 PM

sounds like a fatal attraction,.. to me,.. brokenheart :cry:









Damn, you hit the nail on the head with that one. It's super bowl night....she is at a super bowl party....and I am not invited. I am being played like a deck of cards. Not to mention there is a high probability that there is "someone else" involved. No more calling...nothing I am done!!!

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Sun 02/01/09 05:26 PM


..there is a way to win her over..but its not without risks..tell her that you got a friend that would be a good match for her..push him..and push for a date with him...make sure though that he lacks the qualities she is seeking so that she's doesn't choose him (someone not as cool as you in other words) ..therein lies the risk, she may choose him...if she doesn't like the guy..chances are..she's going to like you more for being selfless, considerate..and for many other reason's i can't fathom..it worked for me 3/3...extremely effective...

roco

p.s. -- this is high stakes stuff..don't do this if you don't want to risk losing her..
and men wonder why we get bad reps... thanks rocco your a real @ss

That's playing games, Roco!

brokenwings30's photo
Sun 02/01/09 05:49 PM
Bad Idea JMO there is a reason she is your ex

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Sun 02/01/09 06:00 PM


sounds like a fatal attraction,.. to me,.. brokenheart :cry:









Damn, you hit the nail on the head with that one. It's super bowl night....she is at a super bowl party....and I am not invited. I am being played like a deck of cards. Not to mention there is a high probability that there is "someone else" involved. No more calling...nothing I am done!!!


So sorry it ended that way. At least now ya know!

MsCarmen's photo
Sun 02/01/09 06:05 PM


sounds like a fatal attraction,.. to me,.. brokenheart :cry:









Damn, you hit the nail on the head with that one. It's super bowl night....she is at a super bowl party....and I am not invited. I am being played like a deck of cards. Not to mention there is a high probability that there is "someone else" involved. No more calling...nothing I am done!!!


Damnnnnnn!!! shocked shocked That really sux dude!

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