Would you criticize me if I said no smokers? I am curious.

Also - a few beers is okay - but someone that drinks often or a lot... no. Again - am I being too judgemental? Oh, maybe it helps to know my step-father was a mean alcoholic.

I guess I would say my choices are not made lightly even if they may seem narrow minded to some. Is it any different than a guy that only wants to date skinny blondes? I dunno.

LOL - Actually I think Skad is on the same page I am. You've said pretty much the same things I would. It is not that I think someone of the Catholic faith is not a "real believer" - but that I don't believe the same things they do. I have looked into what the Catholic church teaches and I disagree with some of the teachings. That does not mean I agree with my OWN church 100% all the time. But it is a church where I enjoy the teaching, fellowship and worship. Those things are important to me and I don't think it is wrong to say so. But I want to be with someone that wants to share that time with me. Not someone that goes to a different church on Sunday than I do. I experienced that as part of my life when I was married and I have missed that all these years (widow 14+ years now).

Other than that I don't think I'm very picky. Height, weight, hair (or lack thereof) and nationality are all pretty open. I did think of something to add. A guy should have "guy friends" - and hang out with them at least once a month. I think that is important? Comments?

So was mine.



I find that moral high ground is usually made of quicksand. Based on your profile and this post, I'm more inclined to think something is lacking in self-image and you'll likely be less resentful towards those skinny blondes if you deal with it. Growing up in an alcoholic family does much to tear down at self-image, at any weight class.