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I pretty much know how most will reply to this but I am going to tell you anyway.
After two weeks now of moping around thinking about how great my ex girlfriend was, she texted me saying "hey! how are you? Can you talk? " I did not actually call her, but I texted her back and forth with just really small talk, then made an exuse that I had to go. Now, I was in the begining stages of actually getting over her, and now I feel like crap wondering what she is thinking. I thought I made it clear that we could not be just friends, so that gets me thinking even more. I would take this girl back in a heartbeat (for better or worse) Your thoughts. |
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You pretty much know how we will reply to this...so what's the point in asking?
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do what you think is right for you
 good luck but don't fool yourself into thinking you can change her think about whatever problems you had and if its possible to start out on a clean slate
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Going back isn't worth it, as the same issues that plagued your initial break-up will inevitably return. Not only that, but she's calling you to "pinch-hit", as she probably broke-up with the dude she WAS going out with.
If you're going in for a quick booty call, then fine... otherwise don't even bother back. It's not worth the stress and drama. |
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Try to call her. at least settle thing's in you'r own mind.JMO.
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I pretty much know how most will reply to this but I am going to tell you anyway. After two weeks now of moping around thinking about how great my ex girlfriend was, she texted me saying "hey! how are you? Can you talk? " I did not actually call her, but I texted her back and forth with just really small talk, then made an exuse that I had to go. Now, I was in the begining stages of actually getting over her, and now I feel like crap wondering what she is thinking. I thought I made it clear that we could not be just friends, so that gets me thinking even more. I would take this girl back in a heartbeat (for better or worse) Your thoughts.  If she wants to get back with you, and you do too, then go for it.
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isn't this like those "baby comeback"mop commercials?
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Follow your heart, right or wrong!!
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I pretty much know how most will reply to this but I am going to tell you anyway. After two weeks now of moping around thinking about how great my ex girlfriend was, she texted me saying "hey! how are you? Can you talk? " I did not actually call her, but I texted her back and forth with just really small talk, then made an exuse that I had to go. Now, I was in the begining stages of actually getting over her, and now I feel like crap wondering what she is thinking. I thought I made it clear that we could not be just friends, so that gets me thinking even more. I would take this girl back in a heartbeat (for better or worse) Your thoughts. Let me start with a question. What do you really want? Do you want Closure? Do you want Get Back With Her? You tell me. |
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Talk to her...maybe you can resolve problems of the past. If not be ready to say good by. Good luck.
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Going back isn't worth it, as the same issues that plagued your initial break-up will inevitably return. Not only that, but she's calling you to "pinch-hit", as she probably broke-up with the dude she WAS going out with. If you're going in for a quick booty call, then fine... otherwise don't even bother back. It's not worth the stress and drama. here is the thing, there really was nothing wrong with anything. She had really bad insecurity issues and such, and I wonder whether she is now willing to work on that. |
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Well, if you ask her up front, you might get an idea. But the chance that the same issues returning the next time you go back are pretty high.
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If you love her than go for it
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this was the closest thing to love I have ever experienced.
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Well if you were THAT close to her, then go for it. But just be aware that you'll probably be opening up old wounds that'll have you wondering why you went back for seconds.
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I pretty much know how most will reply to this but I am going to tell you anyway. After two weeks now of moping around thinking about how great my ex girlfriend was, she texted me saying "hey! how are you? Can you talk? " I did not actually call her, but I texted her back and forth with just really small talk, then made an exuse that I had to go. Now, I was in the begining stages of actually getting over her, and now I feel like crap wondering what she is thinking. I thought I made it clear that we could not be just friends, so that gets me thinking even more. I would take this girl back in a heartbeat (for better or worse) Your thoughts. 
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Ok update. I noticed she texted me a couple hours ago and said " are you stranded?" I didn't text back because it's geting late here in michigan.
Stranded???? What does that mean? I am utterly confused. |
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Don't go there man. I made the same mistake with my ex, and nothing ever changed. You have to just go ahead and let go.
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Ok update. I noticed she texted me a couple hours ago and said " are you stranded?" I didn't text back because it's geting late here in michigan. Stranded???? What does that mean? I am utterly confused. She might mean "stranded" in it's literal meaning- like you're stuck in a snow bank or something (dunno if it's snowing like mad in your area). Other than that, I dunno. |
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Cut the small talk. Ask her what she wants. Don't dink around. She wants something. |
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