The only way you will find real love is slow and easy, the natural way. Let things take their course, don't be too desperate or even act that way. Take your time, and know, there are many women who you could be compatible with, there is hope. Also, do not illusion yourself to the idea, there is only one. Think logically, use your best judgment, if it doesn't feel right, take a step back and think about it for a bit, don't obsess, be open to discussions. Oh yeah, and keep that bad boy inside of you in check, many women like badboys, but lets get real, there will come a point when you will have to be real. Be you from the start, no games. Oh yeah, and be bigger than negativity, no need to be cruel. Show your a gentleman sometimes.
Smiles, keep on keeping on. lilwick