Here is the truth, you can be dating a gal for a few months, plying her with gifts, being the nice guy, courting her in the traditional manner, hoping to get closer or intimate, almost "going steady."

And then along comes a confident alpha male and she cannot help being attracted to him. It is hard wired in females to seek the strong alpha male for mating.

So she can be out with the girls one night and she can very possibly hook up with this guy and be in bed with him before you can blink an eye.

Next day, she is back to being the innocent virtuous "girlfriend" of the nice guy.

This happens more than you know. The thing to do is to find how how to be an alpha male. A person with his own personal power and confidence. It starts out that way and it develops into your own self improvement program where you gain knowledge and confidence in yourself. Its not about being dishonest like so many sleazy pick up artists, although it would not hurt to learn their trick and tactics. Then you will know what they are using on YOUR GIRL behind your back. You will be more alert.

Men go to college for years to train for that special job that will be their career so they can support their wives and they don't know jack about how to attract one.

Educate yourself, is my advice. In how to talk to women, in how to romance them, in how to be a confident male, in how to please them in bed. Don't just stumble in the dark.

Women have been learning how to attract their men all of their lives, planning their weddings etc. Men need to catch up.