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Topic: "TELL ME WHAT YOU WANT .."
Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:06 PM

Actually I was looking for a free date site that offered chat but that is rather slow how the program is set up.

I found I do like the forums as they make me think and hopefully give me a place to contribute.

The best part has been the friendships that seem to come through when I need them most. That and some of you have confirmed my belief in the basic goodness of the human race.

I still want a good one to one personal relationship but I think I will probably have to get more serious about looking at people locally.



Yes I'm prone to think that works better too .. lol

the local thing that is :wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:07 PM



well I thought I was on this site to meet someone... but have become cynical after my last experience and now I am not sure


I hear ya babe .. Sgt Peppers Lonely brokenheart Club Band ..

but like I said my good experiences far outweigh the bad :tongue:


well you know i have a few good friends i am glad to have met on here so it's all good bigsmile



I hear ya girlfriend flowers

njmom05's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:11 PM
Edited by njmom05 on Sat 01/24/09 05:12 PM
I started out almost 2 yrs ago looking to meet someone here. But so far, I've met one guy who wanted a quick bang session, I've met one guy who was psycho and everyone else I like is way too far away, I also took almost a year off cause I met someone. I love the forums, they make me laugh, they make me smile, they make me shake my head in amazement. But for now, I am here for the friends I have already made and for the new ones I'll meet in 2009. If I meet someone I'll never turn it away, but I am also okay if I don't meet someone.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:11 PM

I wanna zig a zig ahhhh:laughing:


Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.




LMAO .. oh ya babyyyyyyyy

I used to have an RX8 I called zigzag too :banana:

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:13 PM

I started out almost 2 yrs ago looking to meet someone here. But so far, I've met one guy who wanted a quick bang session, I've met one guy who was psycho and everyone else I like is way too far away. I love the forums, they make me laugh, they make me smile, they make me shake my head in amazement. But for now, I am here for the friends I have already made and for the new ones I'll meet in 2009. If I meet someone I'll never turn it away, but I am also okay if I don't meet someone.



I hear ya sweets .. but it's a place to chill in the meantime for sure.

And I gotta say I have the bestest friends from online sites. Yep, Yep, Yep :tongue:

njmom05's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:20 PM


I started out almost 2 yrs ago looking to meet someone here. But so far, I've met one guy who wanted a quick bang session, I've met one guy who was psycho and everyone else I like is way too far away. I love the forums, they make me laugh, they make me smile, they make me shake my head in amazement. But for now, I am here for the friends I have already made and for the new ones I'll meet in 2009. If I meet someone I'll never turn it away, but I am also okay if I don't meet someone.



I hear ya sweets .. but it's a place to chill in the meantime for sure.

And I gotta say I have the bestest friends from online sites. Yep, Yep, Yep :tongue:

I agree, actually ALL of my really close friends I have met online over the last 6 or so years. My best friend in the world I met on a different site. I can't picture my life without him in it. We don't talk everyday, but I love knowing we are only a call or a text apart.

mommyof1's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:21 PM


i'm here for friends only...








geesh .. when you're HERE :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:



I've been busy...what can I say biggrin love :heart:

scoundrel's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:28 PM



smokin
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want ..




What do I want, from this place?

What I want is in the unseen wind; a gust of desire and the hint of opportunity for adventure, and I will turn my journey to find another horizon, a place of exotic or strange things to quench a new fire of interest in life.




Is the next shore REALLY that close for you scoundrel?
I didn't think you were THAT old .. if Tina Turner can step back on stage at 69 and give it another shot I'd say you should stop shopping for your urn to carry ashes and get back into the loud throng of the living .. :wink:



The journey has taken its toll, yet already I am having more of a start on building a new life than I have known for several years.
That is why my initial remark was about earning and saving $$...increasing options to live more of a new life.
As for relationships though...I remain skeptical of their real value, aside from friendship.
Having once married for over 20 years, I know of no good reason to pursue such a dream again.
I must catch up with the world, and learn to live well according to the facts of life for a person aiming at their sixties.

Tina Turner? Pffffffft. Renewal of millionaire lifestyle and the investments/assistance of that crowd in which one moved is entirely different than if an undiscovered talent of 69 strode onto American Idol, starting at zero.

I am starting at zero. Homeless, destitute, and living on the streets, one year ago. Now, employed and on hard-earned vacation, it is a new life.
Perhaps you are correct.
Perhaps, when I am 69, much more will be feasible than I can now foresee. flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:31 PM
Well to each his own but honestly that kind of viewpoint would have me burying MYSELF .. just sayin.

Life is new for me every single day. If a day's circumstances broadside me @ 4 pm on a quiet afternoon, I just breathe deep and know that once my head hits the pillow I start ALLL over again ..

Oh how I love that life gives us DAILY new chances. How depressing if it didn't eh?

:banana:

scoundrel's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:34 PM
I really do admire your attitude.

Generally, I have buckets of the "Go forth with Attitude and Seize the Day!!"

Today...I'm just in a funk.

My bad.

Thanks for your uplift.flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:41 PM

I really do admire your attitude.

Generally, I have buckets of the "Go forth with Attitude and Seize the Day!!"

Today...I'm just in a funk.

My bad.

Thanks for your uplift.flowerforyou



No need to apologize. I am just one that needs to hold onto the dream. Every day. It's why I live in my Happy Place :tongue: Works for me yanno? rofl rofl rofl rofl

Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:43 PM

smokin
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want ..




So ya .. honestly, let's cut to the chase. Be real. Shoot straight. What ARE you on here for? spock What DO you really want? oops

Many posters in the forums play the "meh .. I'm just here for my homies .. or for shooting the breeze with others .."


Will ya take the risk to be vulnerable and transparent and tell us why you really DO spend time (for some it's alll day/night) on the forums, and for that matter .. on this site in general.slaphead

Why you DO have pictures of yourself and write a short story bout your life.shades



So tell US what you want, what you really really want,
WE'LL tell you what WE want, what WE really really want ..




*PULLS UP CHAIR, GRABS A COLD ONE .. drinks









AND WAITS. :angel:







I'm looking for someone I can runaway with.

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:48 PM
oooooooooooh goody .. where we goin? :banana:

Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 05:51 PM

oooooooooooh goody .. where we goin? :banana:


Somewhere far far away smokin

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:04 PM


oooooooooooh goody .. where we goin? :banana:


Somewhere far far away smokin



Do we need luggage? or just Beam Me Up capabilities :tongue:

Totage's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:07 PM



oooooooooooh goody .. where we goin? :banana:


Somewhere far far away smokin



Do we need luggage? or just Beam Me Up capabilities :tongue:


Luggage is optional. Beam Me Up capabilites, not needed. shades

njmom05's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:08 PM

I really do admire your attitude.

Generally, I have buckets of the "Go forth with Attitude and Seize the Day!!"

Today...I'm just in a funk.

My bad.

Thanks for your uplift.flowerforyou

That is what we are here for, to keep ya smilin!

flowerforyou flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:20 PM


I really do admire your attitude.

Generally, I have buckets of the "Go forth with Attitude and Seize the Day!!"

Today...I'm just in a funk.

My bad.

Thanks for your uplift.flowerforyou

That is what we are here for, to keep ya smilin!

flowerforyou flowerforyou



oops Well I'm not sure that's the entire reason I'm here .. I mean I am a professional multi-tasker.

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

njmom05's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:22 PM



I really do admire your attitude.

Generally, I have buckets of the "Go forth with Attitude and Seize the Day!!"

Today...I'm just in a funk.

My bad.

Thanks for your uplift.flowerforyou

That is what we are here for, to keep ya smilin!

flowerforyou flowerforyou



oops Well I'm not sure that's the entire reason I'm here .. I mean I am a professional multi-tasker.

:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Multi-tasker...geeze I do that everyday. Between juggling my son's special needs, his teachers, therapists, doctors, nurses, appointments, and still trying to work full time and keep our household running. Its busy, but he's worth every minute. :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 01/24/09 06:25 PM




oooooooooooh goody .. where we goin? :banana:


Somewhere far far away smokin



Do we need luggage? or just Beam Me Up capabilities :tongue:


Luggage is optional. Beam Me Up capabilites, not needed. shades



oh good cuz I like to pack .. you never know when you need the proverbial little black dress yanno

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