how many guys out there feel they could debunk the dead beat dad tales.......?

So f, funny LMAO.............

that's friggin great

if i am lucky enuf someday to be a father, i will support my children in every way...seems like alot of men don't do this...be seeing you

Well, so far you've got a handfull of Haha's...but no definitive answer...yet...

there may not be one

yep there is

Not all dad's are dead beat dad's.. I had my son when I was 17 and got married AND joined the Army just so I could take care of my family. Even though we divorced I still love my son more than anything and I will make sure he leads the fullest and happiest life that is possible for him to live.

forgive the bitterness then..but I get irritated when I see children denied of either parent because one of them...is an a$$$


I was not implying that all fathers were dead beats....I was asking how many of those who are fathers....challenge the assumption that simply because a father is removed, in varying degrees, from the child's life, that he must be a dead beat dad

and respectively...how many would be willing to be a parent for a child they did not birth/ father

My dad, hands down, ROCKED. I couldn't have gotten any luckier
My brother also makes one hell of a father.

well you also gotta look at the other side to.


my brother and his wife are divorced now,they have 3 kids.


and it was mostly her fault because she wanted to live a carefree life with out kids,and still acts like she dont have kids,so he takes care of em most of the time

woman can be just as bad

If my brother ends up being a father at 17 I'm going to slap him..he would do a good job..but I would slap him for it anyway


I have to agree with you about my dad..but I really don't think guys like that are too common...

I challenge it and I am very much willing to be a father to a child I did not birth. To be honest, once I find the right woman I want to adopt. Luckily I am talking to one wonderful woman right now and I'm not sure what will become of it as we haven't even met in person yet, but she has the same views if not more aggressive views on adopting as I do.

can I ask what those views are?

woman are just as bad as men are,I have seen it to much where the mother didnt care and the guy was left to take care of kids/

Another thing.. no kid makes a good father when they start out so young. I wasn't for a long time. It takes a lot of learning. I was very hard on my son in the beginning and damn near up to my divorce before I realized that he is just a kid and I have plenty of time to teach him how to be tough. I have a lot to repair with my son as he remembers me now as being mean even though I thought of it as "tough love" but the times I get to see him now I am a completely different person. Luckily he is still very young and I have plenty of time to teach and help him become a good man.

I prefer to read the Daddy Baby stories.....now those are MIND BOGGLING CLIFF HANGERS!!!