As long as you keep having contact with this jerk the more he is going to yank your chain and keep you and your child upset. Why would you want to do this?

So what if he thinks he is going to name some other child your son's name? Even if the brainless dame who has the twins goes along with it means nothing. Do a google search on the name and you will find thousands of people with the same name. They are no more of a problem for you than if this kid has the same name.

Leave him alone. Do you care how many women he sleeps with or kids he has? That doesn't make them your responsibility or family to your child. My bet is if he never had another kid he wouldn't step up and do for yours.

If he doesn't make the effort for visitations count yourself and your child lucky. He will find out what he wants to know for himself anyway. And you don't end up haveing him or some Bimbo babysitting your son.

Face it you can't get blood out of a turnip. Quit wasteing your time begging from this creep. If he doesn't have respect for you that is on him. But if you don't have respect for yourself that is on you. I think you are wasteing your time but if you want money from this creep file for child support enforcement and if you get lucky fine. Pay for some schooling so you can be a better provider and don't need him when he doesn't. It is pretty obvious that may be pretty frequent.

Sorry this happen to you. Live and learn. Wish you success.

Nothin you can do really, it's his kid. Just learn to accept the things you have no control over, and move on

Your son will do fine as long as he has you. Maybe see about counseling, just to be sure. It may help him to talk to someone about some of the issues he's facing.

Just reassure him you're there for him and it's not his fault.