Topic: Someone to depend on
MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 01/19/09 07:49 AM

Drago01's photo
Mon 01/19/09 07:50 AM

:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:

We are social creatures at heart. I think we were just made that way. Its natural to be happier in love and together in life.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 01/19/09 06:54 PM


:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:

We are social creatures at heart. I think we were just made that way. Its natural to be happier in love and together in life.
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galendgirl's photo
Mon 01/19/09 06:55 PM




Gorgeous painting! Who's the artist?

SitkaRains's photo
Mon 01/19/09 06:58 PM


:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:


True independence comes with confident ability to weather the vagaries of life. That is what people love about independence. It means that they have made the grade, and CAN DO what needs doing. They grew up.
They feel better with another person of similar achievement. Just like rowing a boat. I can do it, and you can do it, but we can do it better together, and with less effort, and get further more quickly.
Ain't it neat?


Excellent post I know I cherish my independence I want that special person to share and blend with me.I don't want him to loose anything nor do I want to loose anything either. I want us both to excel together.

Holly4459's photo
Mon 01/19/09 07:00 PM



because you can't make love to yourself:heart: :heart: :heart:


but women hate making love, or is it sex they hate?flowerforyou
you've met the wrong ladies:heart:


Uh... yeahnoway

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 01/19/09 08:55 PM




because you can't make love to yourself:heart: :heart: :heart:


but women hate making love, or is it sex they hate?flowerforyou
you've met the wrong ladies:heart:


Uh... yeahnoway
laugh

no photo
Tue 01/20/09 02:07 AM
Healthy human beings are more interdependent, rather than independent or dependent.

sensualsweet's photo
Tue 01/20/09 02:09 AM

I know I would. Don't dare get sick or hurt.


If a woman truly loves you, she will stand by you and care for you when you are sick or hurt.

sensualsweet's photo
Tue 01/20/09 02:10 AM


because you can't make love to yourself:heart: :heart: :heart:


but women hate making love, or is it sex they hate?flowerforyou



Not ALL women do.

OrangeCat's photo
Tue 01/20/09 02:11 AM
I dont depend on any one but me

keepthehope's photo
Tue 01/20/09 02:13 AM
Being independent means that you don't have to worry if something happens and you are all alone, with noone to take care of you. We are afraid of being vulnerable.

On the other hand it's nice to have someone care for you, about you, love you. We all need that to make life better.

no photo
Tue 01/20/09 02:19 AM

but women hate making love, or is it sex they hate?flowerforyou

what noway

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/20/09 10:03 AM

Healthy human beings are more interdependent, rather than independent or dependent.
bigsmile trueflowerforyou

no photo
Tue 01/20/09 10:05 AM

:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:


'Cuz they don't know what they want.

no photo
Tue 01/20/09 10:07 AM

:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:


I've never met anyone who can handle every conceivable situation and problem totally alone. Being independent is a good thing, but it's nice to have someone there for you when things REALLY get bad.



MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 01/20/09 07:08 PM


:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:


I've never met anyone who can handle every conceivable situation and problem totally alone. Being independent is a good thing, but it's nice to have someone there for you when things REALLY get bad.






bigsmile thats truebigsmile

aztmom's photo
Tue 01/20/09 07:10 PM
Who said they wanted to be independent???noway

rlynne's photo
Tue 01/20/09 07:12 PM
everyone wants to know they're not alone

Totage's photo
Tue 01/20/09 07:15 PM

:heart: Why do people love the idea of being independant, but feel better when they have someone to depend on and love?:heart:


Because they don't really want to be independant.