Topic: cute or beautiful
Filmfreek's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:43 AM


Howbout just simply attractive? That is what I usually use to describe women.


so when you look at a girl and wanting to give her a compliment you say "wow you're so attractive!"

? lol just sounds weird.


Haha. No. I would say something like "I think you are a very attractive lady". Putting an emphasis on the very.

Too boring? Too mature?

no photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:43 AM

just shows how limited the male vocabulary is




frustrated Typical frustrated




Shagwell's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:44 AM
*making a mental note*

Never compliment a girl, ever!

Jill298's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:44 AM
<---- was told my "face" is very pretty and if I went on a diet I would be hot. :angry: He couldn't figure out why I was less than impressed with his "compliment" grumble

Queene123's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:44 AM

i personally HATE being called cute, hot, "smokin" ... that's all ridiculous to me. i like being called beautiful or something of that nature.

how do you feel ladies?

and guys, can you explain the difference between all these different adjectives from the MALE point of view, and why some are never used?


cute, sexy, gorgeous, hot, smokin, pretty, beautiful... etc



i hate it when a guy calls me babe or hon.if im not with them, then they shouldnt have any right to call me that.. that bugs me

mchstiger06's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:45 AM



Howbout just simply attractive? That is what I usually use to describe women.


so when you look at a girl and wanting to give her a compliment you say "wow you're so attractive!"

? lol just sounds weird.


Haha. No. I would say something like "I think you are a very attractive lady". Putting an emphasis on the very.

Too boring? Too mature?


no i much rather that kind of a compliment. that would make me happier than being called "hot" or "smokin" ... those are just a lil immature to me... and kinda whorish.

mchstiger06's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:46 AM

*making a mental note*

Never compliment a girl, ever!


and you'll never get a date. lol
we are just sayin to pick your compliments wisely :)

Shagwell's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:46 AM
I also think woman are guilty of getting all different words from guys, because they fish for compliments all the time! flowerforyou

special_guy's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:48 AM
Edited by special_guy on Sun 01/18/09 11:52 AM
LOL

This forum is awesome!!! It really shows the difference between the sexes...Most guys see an attractive lady and say "She's so hot!!!" or something to that extent.... most every lady in this house has said "I don't like hot because...<insert excuse here>"

So is it OK if I use HAWT instead?

j/k

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Sun 01/18/09 11:48 AM
You complain if a guy doesn't notice or compliment and complain about the manner in which he does.


Yes, it is true that some men lack education and tact.

But GROW UP!!

It is amusing that some people come on here and wonder why they cannot find someone.

Perhaps it comes down to the fact that you hold people to a higher standard than you do yourself.

Jill298's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:53 AM
I think what she's trying to say is "hot" doesn't come across as sincere as "beautiful" does.

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:53 AM

cute, sexy, gorgeous, hot, smokin, pretty, beautiful....all mean one thing >>>


A Compliment

...so be glad you got a compliment and stop being a choosy brat! flowerforyou
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Sun 01/18/09 11:53 AM
flowerforyou :heart: flowers For you ladies.

When I look at you I see all of you and that makes my heart happy, what more could I ever want.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:54 AM

You complain if a guy doesn't notice or compliment and complain about the manner in which he does.


Yes, it is true that some men lack education and tact.

But GROW UP!!

It is amusing that some people come on here and wonder why they cannot find someone.

Perhaps it comes down to the fact that you hold people to a higher standard than you do yourself.
Ya know Waterloo, this internet crap doesn't hold anything for me. I need to get back into the real world.

darkowl1's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:55 AM
well, it could be what people think of me without even knowing me described as: evil, wicked, mean, and nasty, deceitful, ugly, bitter, hidious, and abomidable. anything spoken with pure heart rather than sarcasm or sexist remarks are compliments at any rate. most are tougue tied and the words just come out nervously at best, so...appreciate a positive compliment.

special_guy's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:56 AM
Lets all get T-shirts with the rules written on the front and back that tell everyone how to compliment us

*blends back into the crowd*

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:56 AM


i hate being called "hot"..hot is something that doesnt last and it feels tasteless. its hard to put into words wat im trying to say bc im stoned..but girlll i feel you..guys wake up! learn how to talk to a women.


puff puff pass!

how about you girls wake up and stop over- analyzing every f'ing word a guy says! flowerforyou
that's what we do....deal with it!

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:57 AM
Edited by beautyfrompain on Sun 01/18/09 11:58 AM

How about "You look good enough to eat" and then being poked with a fork in the thigh under the table. That was my last date frustrated
LOL how lame! I would of poked him back in the eye!

Shagwell's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:58 AM



i hate being called "hot"..hot is something that doesnt last and it feels tasteless. its hard to put into words wat im trying to say bc im stoned..but girlll i feel you..guys wake up! learn how to talk to a women.


puff puff pass!

how about you girls wake up and stop over- analyzing every f'ing word a guy says! flowerforyou
that's what we do....deal with it!


not a chance! pitchfork

beautyfrompain's photo
Sun 01/18/09 11:59 AM

<---- was told my "face" is very pretty and if I went on a diet I would be hot. :angry: He couldn't figure out why I was less than impressed with his "compliment" grumble
What a donkey!