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bryguy1972
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Fri 01/16/09 02:27 PM
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wow you're kinda harsh telling me what pictures to remove. this is a dating site about ME, not my dogs or my car. and i am not removing the deal about the cigs... sorry yall but that's a HUGE thing in my book and im not settling for less. but i did make a few changes according to what yall have said, and i thank you for those suggestions so far! My intention wasn't to come across as being harsh. I looked at the photos and pointed out the ones that either didn't show you in a flattering way (you and a half gallon soda jug) or looked like a duplicate of another photo. True, this profile is about you but are "you" just about you and your friends or are there other things? Nature photos, you doing an activity in action, etc. People like to see that kind of stuff. As far as the cig thing. On your mail settings you can choose "No smokers" as a condition on which to email you. And someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but if they have that they are a smoker then they can't even email you. I won't date a smoker. Period. You seem to be the same way so don't compromise on it. Good luck and you shouldn't have any problems getting responses with that kind of profile. |
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okay so i've been told a few times that my profile goes into too much detail and nobody is going to read it all... well i feel like a guy truly interested will. now i know there are those guys that look at the pictures and then make their decision (which by the way, i think if you're on a dating website, you shouldn't be allowed to be THAT picky), but i know there are guys out there that read the profile. i like to talk, and i really like to talk about myself (call me conceded, i know) so sometimes my profile is too elaborate. i just need to know if i should take away any unnecessary information, or even if i could write some more. i'm looking more for male responses, but of course ladies i'd love to hear from you too. any insight is appreciated. and feel free to address any issue, not just the one at hand. peace, love, and chicken grease kelcey |
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wow you're kinda harsh telling me what pictures to remove. this is a dating site about ME, not my dogs or my car. and i am not removing the deal about the cigs... sorry yall but that's a HUGE thing in my book and im not settling for less. but i did make a few changes according to what yall have said, and i thank you for those suggestions so far! My intention wasn't to come across as being harsh. I looked at the photos and pointed out the ones that either didn't show you in a flattering way (you and a half gallon soda jug) or looked like a duplicate of another photo. True, this profile is about you but are "you" just about you and your friends or are there other things? Nature photos, you doing an activity in action, etc. People like to see that kind of stuff. As far as the cig thing. On your mail settings you can choose "No smokers" as a condition on which to email you. And someone can correct me if I'm wrong, but if they have that they are a smoker then they can't even email you. I won't date a smoker. Period. You seem to be the same way so don't compromise on it. Good luck and you shouldn't have any problems getting responses with that kind of profile. that's the thing... im NOT completely against it. i don't mind a light smoker or someone trying to quit. so i dont want to rule out all smokers by putting "no smokers" |
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Just write something like "I prefer a smoke free environment but won't rule you out if you do"
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