Topic: Should he do it...?
Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:30 AM

Sounds like a bad situation all around. Plus, they work together? That's never a good idea.


yeah they work together

lilith401's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:31 AM
Sh!tting where you eat is dangerous, bacteria, the smell lingering....

buttons's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:31 AM
Edited by buttons on Thu 01/15/09 09:31 AM
maybe her bf still wants her to be sexually satisfied during her herpes breakoutslaugh

MsCarmen's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:32 AM



I told my buddy to go for it..

My buddy told me about this girl at his work that she likes him as a sex partner/booty call, the girl already has a bf and pretty much in love with her bf and she has an open relationship with her bf that she told him that she wants to be with my buddy, now my buddy doesnt know what to do.

what do you think he should do?


Just be prepared for a quick getaway when her boyfriend decides to come visit and finds you doin' the "filthy mcnasty" with her.



he already knows and he is ok with it!

Is that because she said he said it or did the boyfriend actually come to your friend and say it. If she said it, I wouldn't trust her, she could be just playing the both of them.

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Thu 01/15/09 09:33 AM


Sounds like a bad situation all around. Plus, they work together? That's never a good idea.


yeah they work together


Yep, sounds like a horrible situation to get into.

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:33 AM




I told my buddy to go for it..

My buddy told me about this girl at his work that she likes him as a sex partner/booty call, the girl already has a bf and pretty much in love with her bf and she has an open relationship with her bf that she told him that she wants to be with my buddy, now my buddy doesnt know what to do.

what do you think he should do?


Just be prepared for a quick getaway when her boyfriend decides to come visit and finds you doin' the "filthy mcnasty" with her.



he already knows and he is ok with it!

Is that because she said he said it or did the boyfriend actually come to your friend and say it. If she said it, I wouldn't trust her, she could be just playing the both of them.



she said he said..

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Thu 01/15/09 09:35 AM
MAYBE THE BOYFRIEND IS GAY AND LIKES YOU........

MsCarmen's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:35 AM





I told my buddy to go for it..

My buddy told me about this girl at his work that she likes him as a sex partner/booty call, the girl already has a bf and pretty much in love with her bf and she has an open relationship with her bf that she told him that she wants to be with my buddy, now my buddy doesnt know what to do.

what do you think he should do?


Just be prepared for a quick getaway when her boyfriend decides to come visit and finds you doin' the "filthy mcnasty" with her.



he already knows and he is ok with it!

Is that because she said he said it or did the boyfriend actually come to your friend and say it. If she said it, I wouldn't trust her, she could be just playing the both of them.



she said he said..


So then how does your friend know she's telling the truth? What if she's lying, the boyfriend finds out, and then comes to beat your friend's a$$? Then what? I'd run real fast from this whole situation.

lilith401's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:38 AM
Maybe they just want to be on that show Cheaters and are setting your friend up to a hot spot on prime time TV... looking a fool.

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Thu 01/15/09 09:44 AM
MAYBE THE BOYFRIEND WANTS YOU........DONT BEND OVER...........

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Thu 01/15/09 09:49 AM

MAYBE THE BOYFRIEND WANTS YOU........DONT BEND OVER...........


Why are you always yelling?

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Thu 01/15/09 09:54 AM
Edited by Kaysler on Thu 01/15/09 09:56 AM
if she'll cheat with your buddy on someone else (the sex isn't the cheating that was an agreed upon situation, the involvement of feelings and now trying to get your buddy before she leaves her current [she's just wanting the grass on the other side]. The Deception is the cheating) Then what is to keep her from cheating when she is with your buddy? (whatever level of cheating it is.

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:56 AM

if she'll cheat with me on someone else (the sex isn't the cheating that was an agreed upon situation, the involvement of feelings and now trying to get your buddy before she leaves her current says she's just wanting the grass on the other side. The Deception is the cheating) Then what is to keep her from cheating when she is with your buddy? (whatever level of cheating it is.



I wouldn't call that cheating if according to what she said that her bf already knows and they have this type of relationship

lilith401's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:57 AM

if she'll cheat with me on someone else (the sex isn't the cheating that was an agreed upon situation, the involvement of feelings and now trying to get your buddy before she leaves her current says she's just wanting the grass on the other side. The Deception is the cheating) Then what is to keep her from cheating when she is with your buddy? (whatever level of cheating it is.


Why do you assume there will be cheating? How do you know she really just doesn't want to boink said co-worker without feelings?

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/15/09 09:58 AM


if she'll cheat with me on someone else (the sex isn't the cheating that was an agreed upon situation, the involvement of feelings and now trying to get your buddy before she leaves her current says she's just wanting the grass on the other side. The Deception is the cheating) Then what is to keep her from cheating when she is with your buddy? (whatever level of cheating it is.


Why do you assume there will be cheating? How do you know she really just doesn't want to boink said co-worker without feelings?


that's exactly what is..

Shagwell's photo
Thu 01/15/09 10:00 AM
Edited by Shagwell on Thu 01/15/09 10:00 AM
"thinking out loud"

what if I change my screen name to "Boinkwell"

:laughing: rofl :laughing:

BlueskyJ's photo
Thu 01/15/09 10:10 AM
nothing wrong with used furniture....as long as it doesn't matter that the couch has been laid in

lilith401's photo
Thu 01/15/09 10:13 AM

what if I change my screen name to "Boinkwell"


You like that? I talk in Harlequin sometimes too, ya know pulsating loverod and shaft... heaving bosoms and throbbing cleft.... noway laugh

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Thu 01/15/09 10:17 AM



if she'll cheat with me on someone else (the sex isn't the cheating that was an agreed upon situation, the involvement of feelings and now trying to get your buddy before she leaves her current says she's just wanting the grass on the other side. The Deception is the cheating) Then what is to keep her from cheating when she is with your buddy? (whatever level of cheating it is.


Why do you assume there will be cheating? How do you know she really just doesn't want to boink said co-worker without feelings?


that's exactly what is..


Misinterpreted what you ment by "she wants to be with my buddy"
That out of the way ...co-worker and not knowing the bf...i say bad place to be in.

seahawks's photo
Thu 01/15/09 10:20 AM
tell him to go for it , if he likes a gal that's had more meat in her then a safeway dee freeze.!laugh frustrated