Sometimes a girl just wants a bad boy and a great roll in the hay.

I think people (men or women) should be honest about what they want from a relationship. If it is just sex say so, if they want marriage say so. Who has time to waste with guessing games.

If you want sex, find someone who wants that and get on with it, if you want marriage look for someone who would make a good partner and wants the same thing.

Time is wasting. Don't waste your time playing the game and hurting each other. Be blunt, be honest. Go for what you want.

The general consensus I have seen on breaking up with someone is when it is done it is done. No amount of explaining or education is seen as a responsibility of the exiting party.

My personal experience is the more you try to be nice, explain, give reasons the more the guy will argue, plead, or promise to change which NEVER happens. Or he throws a tantrum or plays the "my life is over" card. If it is over, it is over, and I don't need the drama.

Some people tell you that you are "too nice" it is an effort to let you walk away as a person with some dignity. You should appreciate it as superior to being dumped or treated like crap until you finally get the message.

If a girl goes through or sees a break up where a guy will refuse to take no for and answer, doesn't take the hint when she just stops contact, even goes over board trying to find her if she justs avoids them is not going to go through that drama. It is just being smart.

She may have seen the hand writing on the wall where you have broke up-made up-broke up- made up with someone else and doesn't want to play.

It is pretty clear that you don't take no very well. Or move on. That doesn't strike me as all that "nice" but then maybe this is a suppose scenario.

I got a very unique approach to the "you're too good for me" cop-out once.

She told me she was ending it "to protect me from myself".

As if that was supposed to deaden the stab wound.

This is just a different way of posting a 'nice guys' thread. Same answers still apply...you can't make generalities about what men are like and/or what women want.