Love is a leisurement. We don't know why we fall in love, but, we do it
anyway. It is a leisure to have someone you can confide in. How do you
know they are faithful? How do you know they will not use your weakness
to build themselves? How do you know that they will not use your
weaknesses to control you? In every fairytale with a happily ever after,
the evil person trying to keep it from happening is disregaurded. How is
that a happy ending for the people with the person who was discarded?

I am in major need of understanding, let me know what you think. Thanx.

I have a beautiful answer for your question. Unfortunately it would
require an entire seminar to explain it to you with justice.

The bottom line is that ultimately no one gets discarded. The finality
of life is an illusion. No one ever really dies. It’s just a play
where the villain freely chose the part of being discarded.

It’s the illusion that life is finite that what wrecks havoc with your
‘fairytale’. The other thing to keep in mind is that it’s merely a
dream that it ends with ‘happily ever after’. The fairytale will
eventually end when that particular life is over and the curtain once
again rises for an entirely new play.

There is no ‘happily ever after’

It’s a never-ending series of fairytale after fairytale after fairytale