Topic: I need help I think
niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:46 PM
I have been on this site since 2006 and have yet to go out on one date. Why?????

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:47 PM
Have you been emailing anyone

Derekkye's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:49 PM
Edited by Derekkye on Tue 01/13/09 08:49 PM
since 2006 and you only have 14 posts - I think the answer may lie therein

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:54 PM
I never really went in here until just recently. I realize that this may be a large part of my problem. And I have been emailing peple that email me but they have all been out of state.

IvnT's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:55 PM
This site doesn't have a whole lot of traffic.

Queene123's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:58 PM

This site doesn't have a whole lot of traffic.


you just started so you havent even tried. so you cant say that. for there is alot of traffic

Drago01's photo
Tue 01/13/09 08:58 PM
Edited by Drago01 on Tue 01/13/09 09:05 PM

I have been on this site since 2006 and have yet to go out on one date. Why?????

Niko, you lookin good. Everything seems pretty decent on your profile. Have you actually tried to contact anyone you think you might be interested in? If you do the matches and stay active I cant see any reason some single guy wouldnt be interested to know you.
I'll sending you some Luck, ok let me just push the button <luck sent>...alright then, things should get better now...:wink:
Edit:
Alright i see i missed something. You are a smoker and its great to be honest. I smoked earlier in my life and found out rather quickly that its viewed by most women as rather anti-social. At least the ones I wanted to date with. So I quit. I might just venture to say that you might find yourself in the same situation with some of the men you might be interested to meet with. Just my ten-cents.

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:03 PM
Thanks for the luck very very sweet.

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:25 PM
I usually look for the men that do smoke. But I guess now a day's there aren't too many of them out there.

plainascanbe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:27 PM
dont give up...I have heard good things come to those who wait

niko1's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:32 PM
I won't give up as long as you don't. Your right good things do come to those who wait. We should both know it's on his time not ours right?

plainascanbe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 09:43 PM
yes

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 01/13/09 10:29 PM

I have been on this site since 2006 and have yet to go out on one date. Why?????


You said no for 2 years?

There isn't too much in your bio and 1 picture. More would probably help a bit.

chevylover1965's photo
Tue 01/13/09 10:32 PM
smokin waving

plainascanbe's photo
Wed 01/14/09 04:35 PM
lots of interesting people out here, I find it hard that you have not had just 1 response, I am cautious, you seem interesting enough. Any real people left in this mingle

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 01/14/09 04:38 PM

I usually look for the men that do smoke. But I guess now a day's there aren't too many of them out there.



I get skipped alot because I smoke.

Timis76's photo
Wed 01/14/09 04:46 PM
Well you say you get what you see. Well all I see is a picture. I will give you the same advice that I was given. Your profile lacks body. Who are you. Ask your close friends. What to like to do and why. use examples to show your personality and interests. Don't be afraid to make it long and full of information. The more you can say the better.
After changing my profile i got three mails the same day.
So maby that will help

brokenwings30's photo
Wed 01/14/09 05:58 PM
post on the forums,great way to meet people here