I am sorry you are faceing this with a parent. I have been and am a caregiver for family members. My Dad just turned 81 and the Princess is 87. I am trying my best to honor their wishes and keep them safe and comfortable as possible. Lots of very hard decisions go with this part of family life.

Only you can know whether to honor his wishes or ask for intervention. I would say that it is not uncommon for serious depression to strike when folks get to that age. It is a common health marker like cataracts, arthritis, or diabetes. It is very treatable. Working with a qualified geriatric specialist medication and other treatments like talking, socialization therapy, exercise, and treating chronic pain or infections even allergys can see stunning responses.

I will pray for you and your family however this goes.

Thank you: PacificStar48

(((62))) Sending you big hugs and strength to get you through the day.

The elderly are wonderful aren't they, so wise and knowing he is ready. Its the reat of us that have to deal with losing the ones we love. I am so sorry, and I am sure you are brave for him. Keep your chin up, he is with you always bcs you are a reflection of him and everything you love about him.

Hugs ((((62)))). I know it must be hard for you. Your Dad has lived a long life. Unfortunatly, when they get this frame of mind (where they are ready to leave this life as they know it) there is not much you can do about it. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

((62))

GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR DAD

TAKE CARE IM SORRY YOU ARE GOING THOUGH THIS HARD TIME

WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU LOVE TO YOU

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You are welcome anytime!!

(((easy))) Keeping you both in thought and Prayers... Here if you need us.

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My mom felt the same way. She explained to me that she had lived her life, had her fun, and was ready to check out. I guess I won't fully understand that feeling until it's my turn, but I guess when your quality of life deminishes, your just ready to go. All I know, is when the time comes, I sure don't want to lay around in bed all the time, watching TV, and have others always doing things for me. I think I understand...

Prayers for you and your dad, may He grant you both the peace that you need at this time.

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u doing ok 62? hows your dad today?

and; Thank you ,again to: Journey2008

Im truly sorry ..I went thru the same thing with my dad and begged him to hang on and he did for 1 and one half years but I began to realize I wasnt doing himright after all it is his decision,,,He wasnt with me long after I told him that I would accept his wishes....I miss him and mom everyday and always will

buttons; (thank you for asking.)Guess, i could lie but, i won't lie to you. i have had better days. my dad has gotten worse-- may be just any time, now.

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