Topic: what to do if u fall in love with someone far away. | |
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me and this girl from cali are falling for each other and we are talking
about meeting sometime. but what would be a sweet thing to do to show her how much i care. any advice. |
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Keep good communication (phone calls,texts
E-mails,etc) Let her know you're thinking of her Words & Messages can make someone feel special and cared Even if you're not in front of each other Good luck my friend *handshake* |
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Yeah, don,t do it!
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hey thanks man . good look out
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hey redneck. shut the **** up.
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Be as creative as possible. If you have spoken a lot (which it sounds
like you have) then take special note of the personal things she has shared with you. You could then say, go to a Kinkos' and print out some of the more romantic things the two of you have shared and have it bound into a book (they will do both for you). Just one example, but anything really that let's her know you are listening. Best of luck to you, congratulations on finding her! |
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Phone call.snail mail daily contact and express an interest in getting
to know who she is as a woman.....google 1001 questions |
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Do you know any of her friends? If so, get in touch with them, have them
plan to take her to a movie at her local theater. At the same time, call the theater and ask them how much it costs to rent a 10-second (or whatever) clip on their screen for local ads before the movie starts. If it's not too expensive, write whatever message you want (or they'll allow)...like, hey, Cali Girl (whatever her name is) sweetie, etc., etc., your (whatever town you're in) Guy is thinking of you...yada yada mushymushymushy...and all that good stuff. |
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thanks for the advice guys. i really care about her.
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save some money and meet up, as much as possible. . ..
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Stop emailing!
lots of handwritten letters, from the soul.... We have forgotten the old ways of romantic tapestry JMHO |
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phonecalls, letters, cards, flowers, emails, webcam, flirting,
everything you would do if she were there... |
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I was there, he was from USA and I'm in the Philippines, we did all
those stuff and it worked for 25 months. Keep going dude! |
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I have always been in favor of flowers. It may be a bit old fashioned
but I always followed a few rules: Aside from Valentines Day, I always send flowers spoadically when they are not expected. I NEVER send them after an argument. Flowers are'nt for making up, they are a hug in your stead. Might not sound overly manly but my testosterone isn't taking a punch. lol Mixed flowers and off color roses are good. Red roses are formal and save the potted plants for your Mom or Grandma. Stick with the cut flowers and maybe even throw in some chocolates. If you have feelings for her, go the extra mile. Again, it might be a little old fashioned, but is that a bad thing? |
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Talk, email, communicate as much as you can. Be yourself, be honest,
then when you do meet it'll just be an extension of what you're already doing. Just my opinion, but I wouldn't wanna hear a lot of I love you talk before you even meet. That would've scared me to death! As is was, we fell in love as soon as we met, cause we already knew each other pretty well, but till you actually meet in person, you can't really know if it's really love or just infatuation. Just my experience with it, and I'm just me, not everyone's the same. Good luck! |
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hope all goes well robbo. cheers mate!!!
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All the best to u
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i did.... it didnt work out.
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Keep it on a level..Dont go showing what deck you are playing with too
quickly..Keep it simple |
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i drove all the way to west va. to meet a gal. it can work if you both
want it to. |
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